My Story of Porn-addiction + noFap and a view questions

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  1. Luffy0891

    Luffy0891 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi Guys ,
    First of all sorry for my bad English , I'm from Germany.This is my First Post but I'm reading things here for about one year.
    My first Reboot was one year ago because of my massive Porn-addiction.I wanted to make 90+ days but at least it was only 63days. But it felt Amazing!!!
    After those 63days my Ed where much better but really not cured...on some days my ed is better and on others not that good.(I think because 63 days where not long enough , I had a massive porn and masturbating addiction for years).After those 63days I have not watched a Porn movie since now but I'm still having a huge Masturbating addiction.(I even want to masturbate when I'm not horny )
    So I decided to do another Run in the Hope that my Ed is getting cured and my Masturbating addiction goes away.
    First start I failed at day 19 one Month ago and now Im on day 6 and I start feeling the positive Energie (I'm looking forward to make 30-90days of nofap , hard mode )...But whats after the Reboot ? Can I still masturbate after these 30-90 days (not with porn or similar things of corse) , just by thinking of normal girls?
     
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  2. Tiger uppercut!

    Tiger uppercut! Nofap Moderator
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    Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  3. MuzzyTheArab

    MuzzyTheArab Fapstronaut

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    You got this bro! I've met people from twelve different countries so far in these forums, you CAN DO IT. As far as what you wanna do after a reboot, I'll say this. I want to crush any behaviors that lead me to the point I'm at now, that includes masturbation. Try and find a real woman bro!!!
     
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  4. thenaturalbor

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    I think porno should be deleted from our lives forever. It is like being alcoholic, if you quit drinking you should never come back, almost all people can have a responsible drinking pattern but I think for an ex-alcoholic person the only responsible drinking patter is not drinking anything.

    A 90-days period of no masturbation I think is good in a lot of cases but quit masturbation forever I think is bad.

    What I will do when finishing my 90-days streak of no porn and not masturbation is analyzing my situation. Have my PIED got better? How do I feel? Urges? How do I feel about masturbation?

    But one thing is clear if I again insert masturbation in my life it must be with a good pattern of masturbation:

    1) I should not masturbating a lot, only one time per week (Two at max)
    2) I have to masturbate when I am horny and my dick is hard, I cant start jerk my flaccid penis in order to obtain an orgasm.
    3) I have to use natural fantasies, fantasising about doing sex with woman who I have interaction with.
    4) Masturbation should be used as a natural expression of a natural sexuality not as escapism habit.
    5) When I finish masturbating, I should feel good if I feel ashamed something is wrong.
     
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  5. Coffee Candy

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    Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

    People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal, we could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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