My Story. Read and learn. Don't kill yourself like me.

Guys you can turn around your life

It's a matter of adding healthy habits to your weekly routine and giving yourself love

Do it for a while, repeat and feel better

Promise it works

(Running, eating whole foods, cut down seed oils, medidate, do a coding Bootcamp, etc
 
TonyTokoyo said:
Hello, everyone. I am a 31-year-old loser with no girl, job, bank balance, future prospects, plans, ambitions, goals, friends. I am not exaggerating a bit, in fact, I am just stating the above things a tad bit too humbly. This PMO addiction has turned me into the biggest loser you can imagine. I literally have nothing to show for the 31 years I have lived on this planet. I ruined my educational career, ambitions, and goals, job prospects, and most importantly the girl that I loved more than anything. She was the one, the only being I could have loved so much, and someone who loved me equally but due to my being a super loser, she got married elsewhere. Really can't forget that last meeting with her. Her eyes were so red due to weeping and her last words; I will never forgive you.

My brothers, I beg you, I seriously beg you. Consider me your future self who just came back to warn you. Pls, pls, get rid of this addiction. No matter what you have to do or have to go through, it's all worth it. One more second spent in this addiction is not worth it. All the pain and hardships you'll go through to get rid of this shit is worth every second of it. Pls, pls, get rid of it. This loser with no life and anything, typing this from his parents house while jobless and a social recluse has no right to dish out advice but let me warn you. This is going to take you down, this is going to take everything down along with you. I was just like another bright kid. Smart, energetic and full of aspirations. 15 plus years of this addiction ruined every bit of my life. I considered suicide but I am too pussy for that. Pls, let the path to sobriety fuck you and I assure you it's not one percent as bad as one more minute spent in this filthy addiction. Man, I miss her so much, so much.

Anyway, right now, I have zero friends, zero social ties, super high social anxiety, zero cash of my own, no job or any hope of getting one without any skill. Pls, learn from my example. Stop this moment. Do whatever it takes to get out of this shithole. Whatever it takes! I beg you all.
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Thank you for sharing this. I need to hear this.
 
cali4sto said:
Guys you can turn around your life

It's a matter of adding healthy habits to your weekly routine and giving yourself love

Do it for a while, repeat and feel better

Promise it works

(Running, eating whole foods, cut down seed oils, medidate, do a coding Bootcamp, etc
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Why should seed oils to be cut down? Whats worse about them than other oils?
 
TonyTokoyo said:
Hello, everyone. I am a 31-year-old loser with no girl, job, bank balance, future prospects, plans, ambitions, goals, friends. I am not exaggerating a bit, in fact, I am just stating the above things a tad bit too humbly. This PMO addiction has turned me into the biggest loser you can imagine. I literally have nothing to show for the 31 years I have lived on this planet. I ruined my educational career, ambitions, and goals, job prospects, and most importantly the girl that I loved more than anything. She was the one, the only being I could have loved so much, and someone who loved me equally but due to my being a super loser, she got married elsewhere. Really can't forget that last meeting with her. Her eyes were so red due to weeping and her last words; I will never forgive you.

My brothers, I beg you, I seriously beg you. Consider me your future self who just came back to warn you. Pls, pls, get rid of this addiction. No matter what you have to do or have to go through, it's all worth it. One more second spent in this addiction is not worth it. All the pain and hardships you'll go through to get rid of this shit is worth every second of it. Pls, pls, get rid of it. This loser with no life and anything, typing this from his parents house while jobless and a social recluse has no right to dish out advice but let me warn you. This is going to take you down, this is going to take everything down along with you. I was just like another bright kid. Smart, energetic and full of aspirations. 15 plus years of this addiction ruined every bit of my life. I considered suicide but I am too pussy for that. Pls, let the path to sobriety fuck you and I assure you it's not one percent as bad as one more minute spent in this filthy addiction. Man, I miss her so much, so much.

Anyway, right now, I have zero friends, zero social ties, super high social anxiety, zero cash of my own, no job or any hope of getting one without any skill. Pls, learn from my example. Stop this moment. Do whatever it takes to get out of this shithole. Whatever it takes! I beg you all.
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21 year old version of yourself , living at parents' home , no money , no job , no life..1.5 months sober..lots of things gonna ruin if i dont do something soon..
 
Thank you for sharing your struggle. I am in a very similar situation to you right now, even close ages. Your story has inspired me to share a post of my own.
 
I'm 26 years old and I'm exactly like you, except that I don't have any contact with girls, because I reject each one to ic
 
TonyTokoyo said:
Hello, everyone. I am a 31-year-old loser with no girl, job, bank balance, future prospects, plans, ambitions, goals, friends. I am not exaggerating a bit, in fact, I am just stating the above things a tad bit too humbly. This PMO addiction has turned me into the biggest loser you can imagine. I literally have nothing to show for the 31 years I have lived on this planet. I ruined my educational career, ambitions, and goals, job prospects, and most importantly the girl that I loved more than anything. She was the one, the only being I could have loved so much, and someone who loved me equally but due to my being a super loser, she got married elsewhere. Really can't forget that last meeting with her. Her eyes were so red due to weeping and her last words; I will never forgive you.

My brothers, I beg you, I seriously beg you. Consider me your future self who just came back to warn you. Pls, pls, get rid of this addiction. No matter what you have to do or have to go through, it's all worth it. One more second spent in this addiction is not worth it. All the pain and hardships you'll go through to get rid of this shit is worth every second of it. Pls, pls, get rid of it. This loser with no life and anything, typing this from his parents house while jobless and a social recluse has no right to dish out advice but let me warn you. This is going to take you down, this is going to take everything down along with you. I was just like another bright kid. Smart, energetic and full of aspirations. 15 plus years of this addiction ruined every bit of my life. I considered suicide but I am too pussy for that. Pls, let the path to sobriety fuck you and I assure you it's not one percent as bad as one more minute spent in this filthy addiction. Man, I miss her so much, so much.

Anyway, right now, I have zero friends, zero social ties, super high social anxiety, zero cash of my own, no job or any hope of getting one without any skill. Pls, learn from my example. Stop this moment. Do whatever it takes to get out of this shithole. Whatever it takes! I beg you all.
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The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The next best time is now.
 
TonyTokoyo said:
Hello, everyone. I am a 31-year-old loser with no girl, job, bank balance, future prospects, plans, ambitions, goals, friends. I am not exaggerating a bit, in fact, I am just stating the above things a tad bit too humbly. This PMO addiction has turned me into the biggest loser you can imagine. I literally have nothing to show for the 31 years I have lived on this planet. I ruined my educational career, ambitions, and goals, job prospects, and most importantly the girl that I loved more than anything. She was the one, the only being I could have loved so much, and someone who loved me equally but due to my being a super loser, she got married elsewhere. Really can't forget that last meeting with her. Her eyes were so red due to weeping and her last words; I will never forgive you.

My brothers, I beg you, I seriously beg you. Consider me your future self who just came back to warn you. Pls, pls, get rid of this addiction. No matter what you have to do or have to go through, it's all worth it. One more second spent in this addiction is not worth it. All the pain and hardships you'll go through to get rid of this shit is worth every second of it. Pls, pls, get rid of it. This loser with no life and anything, typing this from his parents house while jobless and a social recluse has no right to dish out advice but let me warn you. This is going to take you down, this is going to take everything down along with you. I was just like another bright kid. Smart, energetic and full of aspirations. 15 plus years of this addiction ruined every bit of my life. I considered suicide but I am too pussy for that. Pls, let the path to sobriety fuck you and I assure you it's not one percent as bad as one more minute spent in this filthy addiction. Man, I miss her so much, so much.

Anyway, right now, I have zero friends, zero social ties, super high social anxiety, zero cash of my own, no job or any hope of getting one without any skill. Pls, learn from my example. Stop this moment. Do whatever it takes to get out of this shithole. Whatever it takes! I beg you all.
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You are not a loser, my friend. At least you have choices in your life to make. I think you are too hard on yourself, and it is happening because you compare yourself with others or focus too much on your past. You have a future because you have even a few opportunities that you have, but you don't notice them because your attention is on your past. Change your focus to the future, learn from your mistakes and be a better man. Good luck! We all are not losers, but instead - we are warriors, those who are not comfortable with some things in their lives. Isn't it good that we want good for ourselves?
 
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imo, you need a "win", something that will give you that boost of confidence and provide some hope. Put a resume together - ask someone to help if needed. Write a plan on paper - do it now. Begin with the end in mind. Everyone is hiring right now. Find a company that promotes from within and work your way to the top - it's all about selling yourself and making contacts. Just take one baby step and get that momentum going. Just taking one action, even if it's small, will get you up and going. Not saying it's going to be easy but I think working is the best medicine and will take your mind away from PMO.
 
I am 20 years old but I am in a similar boat as you, a social recluse, zero social ties, no friends, high social anxiety, and lacking hope. Worst of all, I am severely addicted to PMO.

I know this is unnecessary to say this but, I hope this is legit. Thank you for warning us
 
Even though that i live probably thousands miles away from you, wiredly i am in the same exact age and i have the same exact experience, every word you said i experienced. Even the thinking of suicide and be to much a bitch to do it. Don't worry im not going to kill myself for porn! But us guys living every day of our lives like we are literally living in hell of our own creation and we can't stop it, and we don't know why we can't stop it !!!!!!!!
 
TonyTokoyo said:
Hello, everyone. I am a 31-year-old loser with no girl, job, bank balance, future prospects, plans, ambitions, goals, friends. I am not exaggerating a bit, in fact, I am just stating the above things a tad bit too humbly. This PMO addiction has turned me into the biggest loser you can imagine. I literally have nothing to show for the 31 years I have lived on this planet. I ruined my educational career, ambitions, and goals, job prospects, and most importantly the girl that I loved more than anything. She was the one, the only being I could have loved so much, and someone who loved me equally but due to my being a super loser, she got married elsewhere. Really can't forget that last meeting with her. Her eyes were so red due to weeping and her last words; I will never forgive you.

My brothers, I beg you, I seriously beg you. Consider me your future self who just came back to warn you. Pls, pls, get rid of this addiction. No matter what you have to do or have to go through, it's all worth it. One more second spent in this addiction is not worth it. All the pain and hardships you'll go through to get rid of this shit is worth every second of it. Pls, pls, get rid of it. This loser with no life and anything, typing this from his parents house while jobless and a social recluse has no right to dish out advice but let me warn you. This is going to take you down, this is going to take everything down along with you. I was just like another bright kid. Smart, energetic and full of aspirations. 15 plus years of this addiction ruined every bit of my life. I considered suicide but I am too pussy for that. Pls, let the path to sobriety fuck you and I assure you it's not one percent as bad as one more minute spent in this filthy addiction. Man, I miss her so much, so much.

Anyway, right now, I have zero friends, zero social ties, super high social anxiety, zero cash of my own, no job or any hope of getting one without any skill. Pls, learn from my example. Stop this moment. Do whatever it takes to get out of this shithole. Whatever it takes! I beg you all.
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I hope you are doing better my guy, thanks to the universe for sending your post my way, I am 20 years old! Thank you!
 
i_am_lost said:
I am 20 years old but I am in a similar boat as you, a social recluse, zero social ties, no friends, high social anxiety, and lacking hope. Worst of all, I am severely addicted to PMO.

I know this is unnecessary to say this but, I hope this is legit. Thank you for warning us
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I am 20 too, dude! If you need an accountability partner, you can message me! When were you addicted, and how long have you been trying to quit? I'm interested to hear from you!
 
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