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My story. Thank you so much nofap.

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by dudelikeyou, Oct 27, 2022.

  1. dudelikeyou

    dudelikeyou New Fapstronaut

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    Whats up
    Im a 25 year old, fit, normal guy.
    I started watching porn when I was like 16/17

    I watched it every night or most nights, never really getting into anything hardcore, but nevertheless relying on porn to satisfy my desires.
    It became routine. Go to bed, watch porn, go to sleep.

    I’ve had a few part time girlfriends over the years and I didn’t have a problem getting hard for them, and would last a really long time, sometimes not finishing, although usually only one round. I felt like a macho man but really I think this was a result of my brain being numbed by porn. I should have been busting quickly like a normal guy.

    I started working in camp when I was like 21 and started to have long periods of two to three weeks away from any in person female interaction.
    I was talking to girls on Snapchat, sending and receiving nudes and also watching porn nightly. My usage was increasing.

    This is when I started noticing.

    On my days off, I would be social as usual, and after some gatherings, or maybe some tinder dates….I would get lucky. But some started not going so well.

    The first one I remember was a mom who I picked up at a bar when I was out with my friends. I was so full of confidence from compliments from past girls that nothing could stop me.
    She was gorgeous with clothes on but when they came off her noticeable imperfections showed.
    I got hard for a second but my dick went soft and we couldn’t have sex and she went home.

    I brushed it off attributing my softness to the fact that I wasn’t attracted to her. I made up a story for my friends in the morning to hide my embarrassment. This was made worse when I woke up to “happy Father’s Day” on my Facebook profile lol.

    I went back to camp for a few shifts. Kept watching porn, but suspiciously.

    A couple months later I met a beautiful down to earth girl that I still think about. She was Awesome. Nicole.

    Three dates later we are watching a movie. I look over and feel like the luckiest guy in the world. 45 mins later we are on her bed. We are both into each other.

    But I’m not getting hard.

    My last unsuccessful experience was in my mind haunting me and making me nervous at this point. I started freaking out. I even went into the bathroom and tried to watch porn for a bit but it didn’t work. I don’t usually lie, but once again I made up a story to hide my embarrassment. I left. Left her disappointed.

    At this point I KNEW there was a problem. I was fully attracted to her and didn’t get hard.

    I went to a doctor who said it was all in my head, and gave me a prescription for the blue pill. That kinda worked but it felt fake and I didn’t feel like I was back.

    That’s when I found NoFap. You guys inspired me.

    I was serious at this point and didn’t want anything to bring me back to that movie night with the girl of my dreams. My dick felt like it wasn’t even part of my body that night. Unflinching.

    I didn’t watch porn and didn’t masturbate for 90 days. I had a few wet dreams, but in general it went pretty well. Anytime I had a temptation, I just thought about my worst moments, I don’t want that ever again. Being able to beat the urge to masturbate felt freeing, I felt like a better person.

    I still don’t watch porn and have no major desire to.

    At first having sex after my cleanse was very nerve wracking and the nerves would get in the way of it working perfectly or at all sometimes. I would just get in my own head and worry myself soft. I hate saying that hahah.

    The biggest set back for me was Snapchat. Nudes count as porn, even if you’ve earned them. My recovery would have been quicker if I had better self control when snapping girls. That’s what was hardest to resist for me.

    But after a few slow starts and some nervous foreplay sessions, I just started continually and steadily improving.

    Now, after nofap, I can confidently say my dick works again…..EVERY TIME. I don’t last forever like I used to, but I can go for multiple rounds now unlike before. I feel comfortable going into the heat of the moment, and don’t have to worry about anything but what’s happening right there and then. How it should be naturally.

    I went from having zero reaction in my dick from making out with a girl, and having no confidence that it would ever work properly again……..to fully working 100% every time with NO hesitation. It’s been working for about a year now. Reliably.

    ALL because of NoFap.

    I hope you stick with it bros.
     

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