Hi guys , i am new on this forum and i just started to learn english so, please be patient with me . I'm not new to NOFAP , it changed my life more than anything else. I was the classic nerd guy that never had a relationship with a girl ( i usually avoided them when possible ) , i was fapping once a day , everyday until the day i found out what NoFap was , so i starded it , failed many times but in the end i managed to do a 100+ days without fapping . It changed my life , i stopped playing video games and i started to run and do physical exercise just becouse i had so much energy .. it was like fapping ( and for me also releasing sperm ) was a chain that stopped me from doing great things in life . I never tought i could be able to find a girl at the beginning , it wasn't even a 0.1% chance in my mind , but day after day i was more and more confident with myself .. i starded to look and talk with girls at the college and i didn't had anxiety or fear to be what i wasnt ( bad , ugly etc. )i understood how beautiful a girl can be , how beautiful talking to a girl and laugh with her is , how beautiful is to watch a film with her , how beautiful is when they hug , touch or kiss you and i starded to consider them as a human being and not as an impossible to reach version of the virtual and perfect girls you see online . In the end after 95 days i found a girlfriend . 3 days ago i had real sex for the first time ( i was done after 30 seconds lol , fortunally i explained the nofap thing before doing it ) , i starded doing sex basically every day ( i consider my girlfriend a living dream for me , i can't even explain how i got into a relationship with her ) . Now i am happy , feel like a man and i am so proud of myself and i understand that being shy ( consider ourselves a failure etc ) etc it's only a mental and not true fiction in our mind , i am proud of my self, able to talk with girls and able tot try many different things today even if my balls are empty . I'll always be thankfull to sites like this , becouse they literally changed my fuckin life . I just wanted to say that , becouse i think it might help , NEVER GIVE UP , YOU'VE STILL GOT COUPLE OF MOTHERF****S TO PROVE WRONG , never give up .. never quit , even when you are in day 30 and a porn site pop up. IT'S NOT EASY , IT'LL NEVER BE EASY BUT IN THE END IT'S WORTH IT . Thank you and sorry for my english !
I'm glad to hear stories like this! Well done! Carry on mate! And don't apologize for your english - that means that we speak more then one language and it's already an excuse for any kind of grammatical mistakes. The english speakers who make mistakes, they have to be ashamed
Thank you , don't give up you'll see how insane this thing is in long term . I'll add some list of things i found helpfull during nofap : - no porn of any type , not even just looking at it without masturbating ( it will get you in the end ) - if you are watching tv and a hot girl or actress pop up , shut down tv and take a breath of fresh air - don't touch your penis if not necessary - don't sleep naked , do it with boxers at least - check every day of nofap ( seeing that you are breaking a 10 day run might help you from masturbating ) - do not fantasize - cold showers - do things , if you are alone at home with nothing to do , go out ( it might also be a way to find a girl ) These things helped me so much , all of them ..
@BrainShow Hey man, your storie is the reason what I read success stories, it can show us that the dream changes of all of us want is possible, many persons here like me are searching reach that you reached, I hope become strong and in the future writte here an success storie, like your storie. Thanks to share your success with us, and continue in this way, don't stop, don't relax, go for more!
AWESOME STORY DUDE ! I want to ask a question, were you shy or a bit shy? If yes after NOFAP lost the shyness? OBS: Sorry for bad eng xD
