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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by branflakes, Dec 24, 2017.

  1. branflakes

    branflakes Fapstronaut

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    Hi y'all
    25 yrs old. In a active relationship.
    I masturbate about once a day, have sex on average once a week with no issues.
    haven't seen any 'real' health problems with it so far, I have been masturbating from the age of 15, once a day on average. I do feel brain fog sometimes, and its harder to get up in the morning, and sometimes feel overall laziness that I contribute to it. I would like to put a stop to it, as it affects my interest in having sex with my partner.

    Porn has never been my thing, I do watch from time to time and masturbate to it. But most of the times I would jerk off without the use of porn. Just the brain..

    My real problem is that I start without conscious, I can be doing anything and be focused on other stuff, and all of a sudden find my hands in my pants building an erection, and from there to ejaculation is a short way. It is almost never in a way of 'okay, lets go for it now'. I'm wondering if anyone here has experienced anything like this, and can share some insight on it.

    I find the biggest urge the day after having sex, Then is usually when I masturbate 2 or sometimes 3 times.

    Anyways, so I went ahead and started a no PM challenge. Its the first time I'm trying anything like it. Lets see where it takes me.

    best wishes,
    Branflakes
     
  2. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
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  3. Former_CD

    Former_CD Fapstronaut

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    Welcome, stopping PMO will be the best decision you can ever make. I promise it will make your life better. The less you masturbate the easier it is to resist the mindless playing with yourself routine. Your brain will eventually lose the connection between the two, hands =orgasm.
     
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  4. branflakes

    branflakes Fapstronaut

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    day 1 was very hard!! was thinking about it a lot! I did find myself randomly touching it without being conscious of what i'm doing for a couple of seconds, but quickly stopped as soon as my mind was on to it.
    Is that considered braking the streak?

    Today though is somewhat easier. but so far I don't see myself being able to hold it back for too long! I never realized how hard it is to not do it, untill I tried it on a regular day that i'm used to doing it, how do you guys pass through that first two weeks?!
     
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  6. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

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