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My wife and I cracked the code on PIED!!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Poland, Dec 23, 2019.

  1. Poland

    Poland Fapstronaut

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    It's been 3 full weeks since quitting Internet Porn and joining NoFap. Definitely getting the urge to hit the tube sites, but it dissipates a little more each day.

    More important, so much has changed and improved in my marriage, and it's definitely worth sharing:
    1) Better communication w/ my SO -- we talk all of the time now (and it's unlocking her libido big time)
    2) More relaxed and fun sex -- I used to be so serious and intense about sex (conditions always had to be just right); now we laugh and goof around and play during sex, it's night and day different (and so, so much more enjoyable)
    3) Focus on intimacy, not penetration -- we're both touching, hugging, kissing throughout the day (we both work-from-home); by the end of the day we're both in this heightened state of arousal; suddenly, sex just happens... or it doesn't, and we just enjoy each other's company and physical proximity.

    Unfortunately, my PIED wouldn't go away. I was getting multiple erections each day -- and they're all stemming from thoughts/sensations/visuals of my SO. However, the erections faded away within minutes or seconds... every damned time! I figured, maybe I just need more time. Also, I WILL NOT used ED pills, as they aren't addressing the underlying issue(s).

    My urologist confirmed that I'm super healthy and should have no problems w/ quality erections once the porn addiction is out of my system. Consequently, I must have some kind of mental block or other psychological issues causing the ED.

    Recently, on a whim, I bought a couple of different silicone cock rings from Amazon. (Boy, do they have a wide selection!) I never used one of these things, and was kind of nervous! Would it work? Would it be painful? Would I feel weird?

    I read a bunch of different articles and "tutorials" and finally understood how a cock ring works when properly applied. And wow, did it ever work! Seriously, I've had some of the best erections I've ever had using a cock ring (and it stayed strong and reliable while in-use). The best part: when I removed the ring, I was still hard and it kept on going!!!

    Here are the details, if you're wondering
    :
    1) Your penis should be flaccid or only partially hard (this is THE key)
    2) Lube up w/ water-based lube (water-based is safe for silicone-based toys); liberally apply to shaft and balls -- more is better!
    3) Slide the ring down the shaft to the base of your penis
    4) Commence w/ stimulation -- preferably from your SO; as penis fills w/ blood and gets hard, the ring magically builds a raging, throbbing erection -- I'm not kidding, it's magazine-quality stuff!
    5) Put your erection to work for 20-30 minutes -- seriously, do NOT wear the ring beyond 30 minutes, as bad things can happen
    6) Remove the ring and don't be surprised if your erection keeps on rocking!!!

    A week ago, I could not hold an erection for any length of time. At all. My SO and I tried every trick in the book, but there's something deep in my reptile brain self-destructing my erections (I'm sure it's just temporary). Today, given the aforementioned cock ring usage, my PIED is now just a hurdle not a roadblock.

    I hope this info is helpful. If anyone else has had a similar experience, please share!
     

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