Hello. It's been brought up before but just wondering where people stand on having and/or taking pictures of your significant other. How do you feel about taking nude photos of your SO? How do you feel when your SO takes nude photos of you? I personally find my fiancee amazingly beautiful and stunningly sexy, thus I take photos of her when I can when she is naked. It's never in a sexual situation, mostly when she is changing or in the shower or randomly bends over or just looks sexy. I look at the photos from time to time and I am not usually "triggered" by them but I am turned on, mostly making me want to be with her sexually. I take more photos of her with her clothes on then off and look at those as well, thinking how lucky I am that this amazingly beautiful woman is with me and about to marry me. Honestly I can say that I don't have to look at the photos to have sex with her. I think I look at the photos more the day after we have sex, like I'm still in shock I was able to have sex(sex is still a very new experience for me) with such a wonderful woman. At one point I did take a sexually explicit video of her while we had sex, I regretted it the moment it was done. I watched once and realized I loved this woman more than the video and having such a video, even with her consent, was wrong. I deleted the video after and made another about a year later but still it felt wrong so that one got deleted too. As for what she thinks? She has said its fine, but does find it annoying at times. Some of this is because she does not see herself as attractive, she hates her body and often says I'm crazy for finding her attractive. This is due to traumatic and abusive past relationships that still haunt her. Any advice, personal stories or questions welcome.