Need a female Accountability Partner for serious PM

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Harvey07, Feb 17, 2021.

  1. Harvey07

    Harvey07 Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I am a 28 years old male. I have been trying to quit PM for quite a long time now, no success. I guess its time for an accountability partner. They say, women have the best ability to care and guide, hence I would look for a female accountability partner. I am okay with contacting through whatsapp or Messenger or here. Need a very serious partner to help each other out. My initial target is to hit 60 days without PM.
     
  2. Sayonara_

    Sayonara_ New Fapstronaut

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    Hi Harvey! I’m a 28F. I need an accountability partner too. I want to make it past 90 days or even a year. The goal right now is to make it through 40 days. I recently only made it to Day 15 and had to reset the count today. Thankfully, I found this site and I’m incredibly serious about kicking the habit. I realize that it’s better to not do this alone but with a community. Sorry for the rant. Anyway, I’m here to support you!
     
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  3. Harvey07

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    Thanks for your response Kat. Good to find a similar minded person. How would you like to start the accountability? I had to, unfortunately, reset my count too. I am not being able to reset it to 15 days as of yet.
     
  4. Kamal_2018

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    Hello, do you think that the idea that the woman holds the man accountable will succeed, or vice versa, what is required of the addict at this stage is to stay away from the opposite sex and everything that excites the person sexually, in any case try it and if it succeeds tell us, thanks and good luck.
     
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  5. Harvey07

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    Hi Kamal, thanks for your reply. Your words are thought provoking. Does it mean its better for us to stay away from women all together? Please let me know if you are in need of an AP too?
     
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  6. Kamal_2018

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    According to what I have read and heard from the lectures, the answer is yes, the sexual orientation towards women is innate and natural in us men, and therefore if you really want to recover, you should stay away as much as possible from external stimuli, the most important of which are women, pictures and erotic films, because the primitive brain will lead you To relapse again, the idea is to resist everything you love about the opposite sex, Read this book (Your Brain on Porn) It will help you a lot، good luck my friend.
     
  7. Kamal_2018

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    I am married and have more than 10 years of this addiction, after hearing lectures about the work of the brain with addiction and reading the book Your Brain on Porn recently, I am now very in control of it, I have about 25 Day without PM , now I find myself very good ، I play sports, I enjoy our time with my family, life has become like heaven for me now, also another thing that helped me very much is the teachings in our religion that bind me to God and give me strength and happiness, but these teachings I knew them before, but I could not stop until after I learned how The work of the brain and nervous system with this addiction and stimuli, this is my experience I hope it benefits you my friend
     
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  8. Harvey07

    Harvey07 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for your recommendations. I will read the book.
     
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  9. SpideyMadhan

    SpideyMadhan New Fapstronaut

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    Hi i am chandramadhan from india , i need a female accountability partner for my nofap journey , i am in bad situation in my life i lost my cousin also she is dead , i am not studying good i was too bad in studies i want to be perfect i am facing lot of problems if any one interested to be my accountability partner kindly reply me <3
     

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