You're venting to us just like she would vent to you. If you're cool with how things are, then don't whine about it. If you aren't, then do something about it. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life cleaning up after the mess of the guys that end up hurting her? Tell that that you don't and it's unfair to you that she repeats the same bullshit and cries to you about it.