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Need a males opinion

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Tan3110, Apr 3, 2018.

  1. Apr 3, 2018 #1
    Tan3110

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    I'm a wife of one of the guys on here. I am greatly struggling.
    Is it normal for you to have no cravings or desired, urges to use cos my husband apparently has had none other that when we have sex.. But he claims that's his arousal to me nothing to do with needing porn.
    So we are on day 18 and he's had no urges for porn and that just feels so fake and like he's lying to me. Has anyone else been like this.
     
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  2. Apr 3, 2018 #2
    Gooding

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    When I quit PMO I never had any urges. It has been 60 days.... Not even a single time.... But I had flat line symptoms... Mostly loneliness and mood swings. But I am in a sexless life for five years... I don't know whether he is faking... But it is possible...

    If you read the nofap getting started it explain this very well.
     
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  3. Apr 3, 2018 #3
    Gooding

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  4. Apr 3, 2018 #4
    Tan3110

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    He isnt flatlining as he is having sex with me. Which is what males me think its all a lie. And I haven't seen anyone go through it without symptoms and still the ability to have sex eg not flatlining x
     
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  5. Apr 3, 2018 #5
    Gooding

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    I am out of flat line now. And I don't have any urges for porn. It is possible. I think you both need to have a open conversation. Please don't play detective. It will wear you out. My best wishes for you
     
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  6. Apr 3, 2018 #6
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    Everyone's response is difference, and they'll go this differently. I'm going to echo what @Gooding said - open communication is key. I hope everything works out well for you both.
     
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