So there’s a girl I’ve been talking to. She works at the store next to mine. We are in a strip mall. I’m not sure if this is pure female nature or if she is particularly hot and cold. If she comes over to see me she is extremely flirtatious. She openly admits this. She’ll also try to arrange time after we get off work to see each other. If I go say what’s up to her she is almost always indifferent and might even throw a shit test at me. Even if I haven’t seen her in a week or two. I’m not clingy or needy whatsoever and study a lot of dating material. It’s been annoying me a little lately so I started being some what indifferent to her because if every time I make any effort to say what’s up to her she acts like she doesn’t care and then if I don’t do it she’s all over me why would I make an effort. So I was indifferent to her and she came over and was super sweet to me and flirty 2 days ago and asked to see me the following day. The following day comes and she walks by my work and waves with a big smile and I casually wave back indifferently. When she walked back the other way I didn’t look at her. As she was leaving work that night I saw her again outside and she was trying to see if I was looking and waved very eagerly and it was obvious she was unsure of herself. I waved back casually again but there was a pillar in the way and she didn’t see me wave. My coworker even said that she waved at me and asked if I waved back because he didn’t even see me do it. She pulled up real close to me in her car and had a devastated look on her face. She looked really sad and I didn’t react whatsoever. Didn’t give her any signs through body language or eye contact that I gave a fuck. The dude I worked with said “she looks pissed dude”. Here’s what I’m wondering.. did I push it a bit far and should I go get food at her place today on my day off because she’s working just to say what’s up or should I just wait 5 days til we are both working and see if she makes an effort again. Her hot cold shit was pissing me off and I kinda gave her a taste of it but now I feel bad. I don’t know if I should follow my morals or be a dick. I don’t want to be mister apologetic nice guy either. If I order from there tonight I’m thinking of saying there’s one more thing I’d like to order and say if I get done work first Friday I’ll pick you up in the parking lot and if she gets done first she can pick me up and we’ll hangout.