Need advice on making an impression (Dating) + Rewiring.

It's nice in theory.... and what men ought to do in a perfect world. But in practice, most men will not be completely honest about such matters. How can they when they are not even honest with themselves? As for the women, well you just got to do your own little bit of detective work [i.e. don't be gullible]. It shouldn't be too difficult to work out whether a man is legit or not.... right?

But anyway, my advice to the OP is to break the back of the addiction before even thinking about a relationship. A man can only select a worthy partner if he is himself worthy.... in control of himself.