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Need Help For My Fantasies! (Trigger Warning)

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by iamShinra, Jun 15, 2021.

  1. iamShinra

    iamShinra Fapstronaut

    So I've been thinking about this fantasies for a long time now. But When I sit ideal and Do Nothing I get this strong sexual thoughts like I've been laid on Bed naked and a hot naked female lays on me And Humps one me. Kissing me holding my Hands and then I cum in her vagina and orgasm. Are these Femdom kind of fantasies?. I really don't know, What is going on in my Mind. Till Now I've indulged in common genre Pornography like Romantic, step mom and son, step sis, POV, etc nothing hardcore. But When I get this type of Fantasies I get Extremely aroused and Feel like having sex. What do you guys think about this? Are their any articles related to femdom that i can read to gain more knowledge? If yes then please let me know.
     
  2. timmophi

    timmophi Fapstronaut

    I know what you are talking about. I also got those fantasies, but I don't feel like they are helpful. Because you get aroused and then you want more. Until the point the old behaviour comes back (at least for me). So for me the best way is to not let any sexual fantasies happen during the day.
     
  3. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    Step-sex is hardcore IMO. It has the taboo element which makes it more arousing. It is so wrong, it is 'good' if you will.
    I don't think so (from what others have described). This is a more passive sexual position for intercourse, but I think the femdom genre is much more extreme that simply the sex position.
     
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  4. HansiK

    HansiK Fapstronaut

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    I would not call this femdom. Just keep care that this won't make you relapse
     
  5. TobyCelibate

    TobyCelibate Fapstronaut

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    To keep it short and simple, is to find yourself a Significant Other. I met my S/O while on day 6 of NoFap. (4 months in)

    I was at the Spa, and saw a beautiful woman there, I hesitated at first, but decided to ask for her number. So now I have a girlfriend and a potential side piece.

    And my motivation for NoFap is in building Relationships with females.

    try this. Next time you see an attractive female, instead of hiding your face; and feeling shame about your attraction for her, Just be honest with her. Introduce yourself, cut it short.

    “What’s up?”
    “Nothing much, just chilling”
    “Are you seeing anybody at the moment?”
    If Yes, Cool. Ask another. Hell- right in-front of her even. AND IF NOT.
    “Not at the moment, why?”

    “would you like to talk a little more?”
    “Hmm, sure why not”

    BOOM. Than just be chill, and set up a date dude.

    woman love a man who engages and goes after what he wants. Not a man who lives in fear, and stares at her for 20 minutes straight.

    besides. I don’t think that your fetish is the problem. It’s that it’s breaking your connection with real females. Hell- me and my girlfriend role play. But it’s Real.

    put yourself out there guys!
    Of course. Certain Fantasies are wrong.
    But more times than less the female you’re emotionally connected to, or want to be connected to, will have a few of her own.

    Get her on a date. Laugh. Talk about life, Share a drink & eventually joke about silly fetishes you guys have, and boom.

    Porn will be the LAST thing on your mind.
    You’ll go from screens to “I need to work on myself, and be a strong man for this woman”

    YOU WILL LITERALLY.
    Be Lying in bed at 3am and think to yourself.
    Should I type it in Google?
    Or Should I type it to her Phone Number.

    And eventually porn is small time shit.
    You have 2 beautiful females to call,
    You got one who’s into this, one who’s into that. And Porn becomes wack.


    Of course, we have cravings.
    But if you choose to crave Sadness,
    or choose Emotional & sexual connections
    Is up to you.
     
    Last edited: Jun 17, 2021
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  6. iamShinra

    iamShinra Fapstronaut

    Thank you so Much Guys. I appreciate All Of Your Views. I'm feeling Better Now and trying to focus more on My studies.
     
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  7. lococontigo

    lococontigo Fapstronaut

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    Everything you said is true. We often rise porn up to pedestal because we don't act and get what we want and end up in that cycle.
     
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