NEED HELP GUYS !

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by 19m, Jul 23, 2018.

  1. 19m

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    Hey guys . Can being alone for 3 years and I mean alone like with no friends or girlfriend lead you to watch homosexual porn / transsexual porn because I feel like that has happened to me . Just curious on your guys thoughts . I might want to add I’m also straightvand always have been . When I think about that stuff in my mind I don’t get horny but when I look at a pic of like a guy in panties or a transsexual I somewhat / hardly get horny to it . Could this have been the issue as well as escalation ? Thanks guys!
     
  2. Lampilis

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    This is most likely a problem. Better consult
     
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  4. Roady

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    a lot of people here are struggling the same things.
    Read other journals to get some insights (use the search function).
    You also better get some serious help.
     
  5. Dr.Shilo

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    What people don't realize is that when they are watching porn, they are seeing both a man and a woman. Although you might be focused on the woman when watching, subconsciously your mind begins to associate pleasure with both women AND men. Over time you might come across a picture of a nude male and get aroused because your mind has built a positive connection between the naked male and pleasure.
     
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  6. 19m

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    What do you mean
     
  7. StillAWarrior

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    Hey friend, i will answer to you because i just posted and i know how it is to not get some answers, Im pretty much in the same situation as you, and many many others, i think this is because Porn in our times is so easy to find, and we view it so costantly so its normal to normal porn not arouse us anymore (I know that you are straight because im too) Here is the thing just of the records why we get so aroused by gay or trans porn, when we see a cock cuming or get pleasured or pretty much doing evrything in a scene our brain can understand more how it feels so it get us more aroused) Now for the solution, i havent been with a girl me too in 2 years, and when i did pretty much all my life it wasnt normal...because i have watched soo much porn (10 years masturbating EVERY DAY and 2 years now viewing extreme porn like Transexual and Gay scenes, brutal fucking family sex and etc...the solution is one. Just stop it, don't let yourself drop even more down (me too as well) im on my first week and i feel already better, i still have insecurities and depressing thoughs but this is part of the rebooting, you can do it, we can do it, we must keep on not viewing porn, start working out now and them watch our diets and try to be more positive and friendly, PORN HAS RUINED OUR LIVES ! NOW IS THE TIME WE STOP ! NOW IS THE TIME THAT WE DECIDE TO LIVE !!! Keep up with me bro and i will keep up with you, lets keep fighting
     
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  8. Some Hobo

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    Hey there. It’s day 0 for me on my journey but I might be able to help a little. There’s this thing our brain produces that’s called dopamine. It’s basically like the body’s way of a self high. What happens when you watch porn that ceiling of highness gets pushed higher and higher. Normal porn just doesn’t cut it anymore. I’ve asked myself for years if I am gay or not. Whenever I am done with the “time of darkness” I want to vomit at what my mind was making me think.
    The solution is to stop watching porn and stop fapping and replace it with another hobby you love. Essentially re-wiring your brain. Good luck to you friend.
     
  9. 19m

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    Thanks guys ! And another positive thing I guess about this is penis doesn’t arouse me at all . Could I have a Butt fetish or something ?
     
  10. It's most likely just your porn mind looking for something more shocking or "crazy".
     
  11. jedimaster

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    Plz explain in easy way.
     
  12. Dr.Shilo

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    Whenever you are looking at pornography you are not just seeing a woman's genitals but also the man's right? When you reach completion while watching that, your mind creates a connection between pleasure and both male and female genitals. Though you might think you're just focused on the woman, your mind sees both the woman and the man and when you orgasm, the rush of dopamine that makes you feel good tells your brain that both are good and pleasurable so it's possible to start to get excited when you see a naked man because your mind associates all nudity with a dopamine rush.

    I hope that helps. Let me know if it doesn't
     
  13. Jason_Tesla_19

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    Porn tends to escalate the longer you use it, to the point you are using stuff that totally disgusted you at first. Quit porn. Porn can cause terrible issues like ED and HOCD. You might be in the beginning stages of HOCD. You definitely wouldn't be alone here.
     

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