Need Help With Chaser Effect

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Fallior, Apr 3, 2016.

  1. Fallior

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    I was told that I PMO with the chaser effect. I'm not really sure what that is exactly, but how would I go about stopping myself from being in the chaser effect besides accountability partners?
    Any help and suggestions would be great.
     
  2. IGY

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    From that definition (The Glossary), what you have been told is just not right. Looking at your porn counter, I can only see two examples where you did it again within three days. What is far more noticeable is that you fall more often around days six or seven. That is understandable. When you cum, testosterone is depleted and is restocked. This level peaks seven days after your last ejaculation. :rolleyes: I suggest that is why your current pattern shows you often masturbate to porn on days six or seven. :oops: If you could be especially vigilant on those days, you may find that you could go on much longer without PMO. :)
     
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  3. The Help Man

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    So True.
     
  4. The day 7-10 mark I find particularly hard during withdrawal. It's a moment in which depression and anxiety seem to really peak. This is true for every time you relapse. Is it normal to not feel like yourself during that time frame? Intrusive and obsessive thoughts seem to worsen around that time as well. I never ever thought your brain could be dependent that much. Must really be an addiction that takes a lot of time to dissolve.
     
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  5. DyingGeezer

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    as the bible says, that many have their will taken captive to Satan. well what is the will? this thing we base all of our judgement on others about, how strong is their will to do the right thing? how strong is their will to do the evil thing? obviously, when large amounts of testosterone are flowing your will becomes weaker to resist the chemical urge, what is this chemical urge? there are also many other factors. biochemical factors in the brain, it's an addiction, yeah. to the healing effects of sexual response in some cases, if you have other underlying health problems such as pre diabetes or many other biochemical defects. I have so much knowledge I've memorized about it now i'm losing my mind I'm afraid it will all be lost but it is incredible things that would change how people view EVERYTHING but Satan has come against me and I'm not supposed to tell anyone these things or I'll be killed. I mean they are somewhat merciful and I understand their reasons but still, they are immortals keeping this knowledge from the mortals who they leave to die, so they say because they are impure and if they had supernatural powers of the Force they would basically destroy the world within months and besides , they aren't interested in competition or tampering with their global planetary control of Earth.
     
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  6. DyingGeezer

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    I mean, obviously there is the biological need to urinate, or defecate. not doing so is extremely unhealthy of course. you can resist the urge of course, and you learn not to pee or shit. but is this the cause of people saying 'shit' and cursing in profanity? It is frustration of the biological will that makes us curse and use 'shit' and scatalogical, anal references when our will is frustrated. Also when our sexual will is frustrated we say 'fuck this' or 'fuck that' or 'fuck you' or 'fuck everything'. It has long be theorized frustration of the sexual will is the cause of most psychological problems but it's very complex I'm afraid, but you know the Devil and his angels knows shit I never could have believed they knew. They are like million year old aliens or something to have this knowledge of human beings, almost like they designed us, genetically engineered us to be stupid slave species.
     
  7. Well they didn't design us but they are able to tempt us in any case. God designed us that's for sure. They say that Lucifer was revoltant because of God's plans to create humans in the first place. Others say humans came about to replace the many fallen angels in Heaven. But yeah they sure can control us and in order to be free we need to completely surrender ourselves to the Will of God. It's the only way. You are right in that darkness rules the planet though. Faith is of much help in healing. When you realize the error and accept sin for what it is, it's so much easier to resist the temptation, as the Light always prevails. If you're not religious there's still a bunch of studies that suggest porn is harmful, yet a lot of people will always say it's good for your health when really it's not. If you believe God set us free through Christ, though, you will never be a slave of the devil.
     
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  8. Fallior

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    That's good then, but not to say anything, but you're actually the one that told me I was in the chaser effect...

     
  9. Loyal

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    I actually learned new shit here, such a shame that I relapsed today and yesterday. Good luck to all my NoFap brothers.
     
  10. IGY

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    lol - what was I thinking! :rolleyes:
     
  11. IGY

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    Since I wrote that ^ you have been doing it within the time of the chaser effect (i.e. three days). Hahaha - how bizarre! :rolleyes:
     
  12. Fallior

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    Yeah, it's very odd that I got caught up in doing it closer together again. I was doing really good, once a week or less :/
     
  13. IGY

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    You have stretched out the lapses again @Fallior so that is good. Keep it up man.
     
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  14. Fallior

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    Yes, hopefully I can continue.
     

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