Need Help..

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Sep 21, 2018.

  1. Guys I need your motivational help here. My masturbation addiction converted into prostitution addiction about a year ago. I didnt watch porn in 4 months but I have been with the prostitutes which caused several times of relapses. My longest streak is 7 days without going to them. Now I am in 12 days streak which is my highest till now. I dont want to go back into them I want to maintain my streak.

    God help me..
     
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  2. Meep

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    You can make it, you just got to believe in yourself. I believe you can make it if you discipline yourself, do something besides that of masturbation and prostitution.
     
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  4. GA93JDeereboy

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    I think I've messaged you b4. You can do this. Put your priorities first. Do you have a gf? Use the panic button. Don't ever give up.
     
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  5. Bro that was an awesome motivational video. I got up immediately and started learning and studying somethings. Thank you..
     
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  6. Thank you for your support bro. I Appreciate.
     
  7. Bro, I only see this specific escort I only have an addiction with her. I do not go to any other prostitutes. Honestly, the chemistry and sex is awesome between us. Actually she does not give a fuck about me generally but she says that she likes the sex with me. I know it because she can orgasm with me and she is not hurrying in anything. Which makes my addiction worse. I need to get rid of her.
     
  8. GA93JDeereboy

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    How often do you see her and how long have you been? Do you pay her before or after? Does she make a deal about the money?
    Now my suggestion is you need to find someone who cares. That's who you want to have sex with is people who care about you and not just about the $. You sound like you know this relationship is toxic. I beaten it. I'm over it. You can too.
    If you don't pay her, would she still see you? Maybe next time don't pay her. See what happens and then you know what she is all about. Some women are simply tricking you. Or getting money and sex. Find the ones who are not prostitutes. You will be happier. Their are ladies who are into it but don't want to be titled as a escort/prostitute. Just gotta look. That is if that is what your looking for.
     
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  9. I was seeing her once a week it started about 2 months ago. She does not make that much deal about the money actually she makes a huge “discount” for me. I pay her after. I think the result will be not healthy if I do not pay her. She likes the sex or she is the best actress of all time. She doesn’t seem like she fakes it. I am not looking for sex that much actually. I think I am obsessed with her. Anyways, I was going to relapse again today to another prostitute(the one I was going was not in the town and I hope she will retire soon) but I felt so bad and I was in a mood like “I shouldn’t do this” and I got back from the door which is a huge step for me. So I didn’t relapse even I had an immense urge. Which made me stronger now. Tomorrow will be 14 th day of no PMO. Yeay!
     
  10. GA93JDeereboy

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    Good job. So every week is in a way a bit expensive. It does add up. Maybe to be easy going and not like a cheap guy I guess as some say perhaps just be like you can't afford to keep doing it every week, then every month, then just quit. It is nice that she isn't about being paid before. And you seem like a good guy to not be about just the sex. Maybe next time you are their don't have sex. Be strong next time you are with her. And say you want to go out instead of hang out at her room and drop her off. You didn't have sex so nowhere she can be pissed at you.
    Another thing is do you guys talk or text or only when you visit?
     
  11. I text her or call her then we meet in her place
     
  12. GA93JDeereboy

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    Man, feel free to PM me. I think we have a similar issue. But I think based in what I have read, she doesn't really want you. So you shouldn't want her. I think when you stay off this problem long enough, you will not be wanting them. Instead you will be not wanting her due to all the complexities if that is a word. Lol
     
  13. I hope she does not want me thats the way I can get rid of her :)
     
  14. hardowner

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    You can end up beaten up...
     
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  15. GA93JDeereboy

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    Well, have you asked her how she feels about you? Perhaps dont have sex and dont pay. So see her. Dont kick it. So that may prove you the answer there. Then you have a better idea who you are seeing if the bottom if it all is business then you know.
    There isn't a way to make a prostitute into a girlfriend is there? I doubt it.
     
  16. Yeah bro good advice. Anyways, I am not seeing her this is my 15th day getting more stronger.
     
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