Need helppp

Men welcome. Well start wining battle by battle. You need to get rid of porn and matrubation. Not only for reason you mention. But for bigger reasons. And for do that you need to start doing healthier habbits and overvome bad ones. That means completly change your lifestyle.

 

Welcome to NoFap Camilo. I believe you are desensitized because you have been masturbating too frequently and watching too much porn. When you're younger, your body is still very new to stimulation so even if you masturbate it may not affect you as much. But as you get older and as you said, masturbate and watch porn more frequently, your penis is no longer sensitive as it use to be and your brain is so overstimulated with porn that you can't get it hard when you have sex. You need to abstain from porn and masturbation for a while to gain your sensitivity back. Make this your main goal until you can get hard again when you have sex.

 

That is battle in your mind. Think of the resaons why.. something that pushes you in life. And those porn and mastrubation are doing opposite in your life. Pushes you away form things you wanna to achive. So stay strong!

 

Well best way is not to imagine that thoughts in your head. And if you are having them stop digging your hole even further. You are already feel dirty. So try to have a shower and to feel fresh.

 

Your welcome
Try your best. You know sometimes all that is just escape from problems in your life. You need do deal with them head on.

 

I forgot to also mention the Ted Talk - The Great Porn Experiment by Gary Wilson. I always recommend this to new members here because I feel like it covers a range of topics that people are going through here including ED. It's a must watch in my opinion.

 

that ted talk is great. never saw that before. thanks.