Need opinions (sex with friend) (short)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Awolnation28, Dec 2, 2016.

  1. Awolnation28

    Awolnation28 Fapstronaut

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    i don't know man. that's just kind of confusing. on one hand your saying it will help my reboot to have casual sex. which is awesome! i really want to have sex and i also really want to speed up the reboot.

    but then your also saying not to do it.

    me and her have agreed it's just casual. i don't think she will get attached because she has many casual partners. that's how she is.

    and me? i prefer monogamy. but i wouldn't get attached to her. she's not girlfriend material.
     
  2. Darkstar 22.84

    Darkstar 22.84 Fapstronaut

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    Well, that's the problem, dude.
    You're already fighting a losing battle.

    I mean, you're basically saying that you're using her as a band-aid.
    A physical band-aid.

    And she sleeps around.
    You don't.

    Sounds like the one sensitive person in this relationship about to get hurt is in denial
     
  3. Awolnation28

    Awolnation28 Fapstronaut

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    well i've had sex with her like 10 times? and i haven't been hurt yet. and even if i did get hurt. wouldn't it be worth it if it sped up my reboot?
     
  4. Darkstar 22.84

    Darkstar 22.84 Fapstronaut

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    No, because you'd be left heart broken and you'll return to PMO-ing.
    Which is where I am right now.

    And I thought I had it under control too.

    Trust me, guy, the one person that wins in a casual sex thing is the person who doesn't give a fuck.
    And you seem to be giving the most fucks.
    Not her.

    It's logical that you'll get burned at the end.
     
  5. Awolnation28

    Awolnation28 Fapstronaut

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    alright maybe your right. i know for a fact she gives no fucks. and i am very sensitive guy. i'll take your word for it :(
     
  6. TheSilentMan

    TheSilentMan Fapstronaut

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    I don't see where is the issue into having sex with this girl, since is natural human interaction.
    However, I wouldn't advise to have sex while drunk. Drinking will put you into an unnatural state, alcohol will relax you and make you less introvert. But... you might get used to get drunk every time you feel the need to have sex.

    Bottom line: sex is ok, alcohol is not.
     

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