Hello people First of all I'm a guy, and a virgin in his late 20's. I have very low self-esteem and confidence, and it has been like that since childhood. I keep connecting sex with my self-image. It feels like if I have sex with a woman, then I will finally feel "good enough" like its a badge of approval. The thing is I keep turning down woman, because I lack confidence, and I'm scared of sex. This sex thing is really my biggest issue. Does anyone relate to this? Is sex the best way to boost self-esteem? And if not, what can you give me of advice to "fix" my belief on sex?