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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Sonu1983, Oct 7, 2014.

  1. Oct 7, 2014 #1
    Sonu1983

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    Hi all.
    as u know im on 56 days of nofap and i feel bit improvement. but the thing is still i see a chick its seems me like walking pussy. my view to see a women is still no good. so aftr reboot will it change automatically. or i have to live with it. or how much more time it will need. because on some stages i start losing hopes and that i dont want. i ll have to complete my 120 d goal. someone pls suggest.
     
    Sonu1983, Oct 7, 2014
    Sonu1983, Oct 7, 2014
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  2. Oct 9, 2014 #2
    johnsmith5400

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    You mean to say that you see women as sex objects?
     
    johnsmith5400, Oct 9, 2014
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  3. Oct 9, 2014 #3
    Sonu1983

    Sonu1983 Fapstronaut

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    Yes Thats th problem with me. my eyes start scanning chicks figure instead of seeing her beauty. i think my brain need more time to rewire.
     
    Sonu1983, Oct 9, 2014
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  4. Oct 9, 2014 #4
    Low Light

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    Get to know the girl and you'll see that there is much more to appreciate than her body ... I guess it's like filling that void created and left by PMO.
     
    Low Light, Oct 9, 2014
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  5. Oct 9, 2014 #5
    johnsmith5400

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    Well, to be fair it is natural to feel aroused or to get excited by a woman's body. That is separate from PMO, it is basic instinct.If you do scan her figure, it's OK as long as you then realise that she is a person and you behave decently.
    Perhaps after sometime, your response will change; now you 1st see a sex object and then think of her as a person. Later, you will see a person and then be aroused.
     
    johnsmith5400, Oct 9, 2014
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  6. Oct 9, 2014 #6
    Captain B

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    I think it's a good sign that you have already recognized that the way you look at women is something you want to change for the better. If it doesn't happen automatically you could try to actively shift your focus when looking at women. Stop focusing on butts&boobs and start focusing on eyes, smiles, gestures, movements, etc...

    Also, I've been reading quite a few articles about feminism and gotta say this really changed my view on women. I also stumbled across this one day and this made me think about the way I look at women:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocgvnHo6_OU

    Two girls used hidden cameras to film the "visual" harassment they experience every day. I certainly wouldn't want to be looked at like that, as if I was a piece of meat surrounded by wolfs... It's just degrading.
     
    Captain B, Oct 9, 2014
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