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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Right hand, Jan 17, 2018.

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  1. Jan 17, 2018 #1
    Right hand

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    Hello fellow Fapstronauts. I'm in reboot for little more than month. Relapsed two times on one week challenges and then decided to grow the landmark significantly by making it a month. Currently it is day 23 .It has been challenging. Sometimes temptation had me hard, but most of the time it was easy. Now that i am close to the 30 day streak, i'm having serious doubts about whether it would be smart to relapse when i reach first goal. I need your opinions on should i continue having specific dates and goals which i should increase gradually as i had it planned, or should i continue the current streak. Any suggestion is accepted. Thank you
     
    Right hand, Jan 17, 2018
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  2. Jan 17, 2018 #2
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    I think you should avoid falling on purpose and keep fighting. Once I get past 30 days things get a bit easier. Repeating those first 30 is hard and can take forever. So yeah my advice is to not waste time messing up and keep it going.
     
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  3. Jan 17, 2018 #3
    Right hand

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    Thanks for advice. Now that i think of it you're right this 30 days took forever, i'll continue. Thanks a lot man
     
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  4. Jan 17, 2018 #4
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    There’s no reason to turn back. Keep pushing ahead!
     
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  5. Jan 17, 2018 #5
    MikeM444

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    The way I see it, you have all the time in the world to relapse, so why not push it as far as you can? Stacking up those days takes alot of time, PMO takes what, anywhere from 5-20mins?
     
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  6. Jan 17, 2018 #6
    Right hand

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    Thanks, you are right.
     
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  7. Jan 17, 2018 #7
    Right hand

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    Thanks
     
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  8. Jan 18, 2018 #8
    IRISHPERSPECTIVE.

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    DEFINITELY KEEP GOING.

    This is your opportunity now. If you break it, you don't know how long it may take to reach 30 days from scratch in the future.

    I reached day 157 and then relapsed in April 2017 after a chaser effect from sex. It took me until mid Dec 2017 to get any sort of streak going again. Now I'm back on day 30 of hardmode.
    So I reached Day 157, relapsed and then it took 8 months just to reach 30 days.

    On day 30, just get out of your house, turn off your pc, remove any chance of triggers and reach day 31. Then keep going.

    You have achieved alot reaching what is now I guess Day 24. So keep it up and when you get to the flatline, do your research on that and dont et it trick you with false excuses either.

    Last words:
    Pain is temporary,
    Quitting lasts forever.
     
    IRISHPERSPECTIVE., Jan 18, 2018
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  9. Jan 19, 2018 #9
    Right hand

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    Thanks man. I really appreciate your help.
     
    Right hand, Jan 19, 2018
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