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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by WarDaddy, Sep 22, 2018.

  1. WarDaddy

    WarDaddy Fapstronaut

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    Well, ive been very interested in the NoFap for a while now. Ive also researched information on yourbrainonporn. i totally agree with the nofap movment. I used to watch porn when i was bored, angry, excited, horny. Basically any occasion.

    I decided to try nofap.

    I downloaded a sobriety counter and decided i could do this no problem. I was actually surprised how hard it was to not PMO.

    I was able to last about 7 or 8 days for a few months. I progressively got better and started relapsing every 25 to 30 days

    The problem is, i cant seem to make it past 30 days. Its very difficult and maybe i could use the support of this cite. It seems too hard to do alone.

    I currently am starting from day 2. I relapsed 3 days in a row and decided to join, i need the community.

    Thanks for your time.
     
  2. PornFreeMG

    PornFreeMG Fapstronaut

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    I feel you. I’m currently involved in a NoFap what’sapp group. It’s been helpful. I can basically text random strangers at 1:30am in the morning when I can’t sleep and get triggered
     
  3. WarDaddy

    WarDaddy Fapstronaut

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    Yes i think that i need the 'on demand' encouragement from the people here. I have told a few friends of my decision about nofap but they just laugh it off. I need to converse with like minded people.

    Good to hear from you.
     
  4. PornFreeMG

    PornFreeMG Fapstronaut

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    Ha so true. My best friend thought I was crazy and said it’s just porn...come on, your a guy. We’ve talked since...but it’s a really hard thing to be up against and it’s lonely
     
  5. cwb18

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    Welcome to the movement Wardaddy. I've only been here a few days but your story is similar if not the same as so many of us on here. Dip into threads and say hello, don't hold back is how I'm approaching this. 7 days PMO now.
     
  6. WarDaddy

    WarDaddy Fapstronaut

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    Yes, it is lonley. But ive got the people here to help. People act as if it weird to not watch porn as a conscience choice.
     
  7. PornFreeMG

    PornFreeMG Fapstronaut

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    Yes. And I missed this whole boat on online dating. So I have friend actively having sex with all kinds of random people and still watching porn and boasting about how rad it all is
     
  8. WarDaddy

    WarDaddy Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the warm welcome.
     
  9. PornFreeMG

    PornFreeMG Fapstronaut

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    Yah you tell people...I’m an addict and they are like “oh did you stop drinking? Did you go to AA?” No I’m a sex addict. “Oh wow, do you like have all this random sex? Are you picking up dudes in rest stops?” No I’m a porn addict. Pause..”what? That’s not an addiction. Get out of here, all guys watch porn, we’re guys.”
     
  10. WarDaddy

    WarDaddy Fapstronaut

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    Yea, i sometimes wonder in 30 or more years from now, when more porn addiction studies become more mainstream - people wont think its so harmless and they'll think back and remeber they thought you were crazy.
     

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