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Need your opinion.Can you still fantasize about real sex?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by KTFire, Feb 6, 2014.

  1. Feb 6, 2014 #1
    KTFire

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    Guys I need your opinion on this one.

    Sometimes going through daily activities or a ride home I get thoughts about women and sex (quite common I know), but the question is if it is bad?
    After about a month I don't imagine any kind kinky activities or fetishes. What keeps popping in my mind is if I could meet a girl I had a one night stand with and "redeem", instead of leaving completely humiliating. I would just imagine actually getting hard and doing a pretty standard act with her, ending with her satisfied.
    This does excite me a little, but I don't M/O since I'm on hard mode for the time being.

    Any ideas? Is it ok to think about that kind of stuff? Is it still counter-productive?
     
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  2. Feb 6, 2014 #2
    Mark

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    Theres nothing bad about sex at all mate and the vast majority of us are here to stop using and thinking about porn etc. I would elaborate but am just off out I hope that helps :)
     
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  3. Feb 6, 2014 #3
    KTFire

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    Thank you for the response. I'm just concerned that fantasy (even if so tame) can lead to PMO and not doing the "real deal"
     
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  4. Feb 6, 2014 #4
    Mark

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  5. Feb 6, 2014 #5
    KTFire

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    Jiltedjohn, thank you.
    That makes a good point, I really should just accept and move on rather being frustrated that it keeps popping into my head.
     
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  6. Feb 6, 2014 #6
    William1

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    I know that whenever I have lustful thoughts I purge them from my mind. I don't think it aids my quest to be clean to be conjuring up visions of pornography I have viewed in the past, or lusting over women in my life. It is difficult, and you literally have to use your brute force to will yourself out of thinking this way. This is what I recommend. I think it is the purest way to live, and I believe it will strengthen you to function in this way.
     
    William1, Feb 6, 2014
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