Neighbors having sex

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by fellowBrother, Mar 22, 2019.

  1. fellowBrother

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    I live on a college campus and every neighbor I have is a couple. They all have sex regularly, evident by the pounding from all sides. I'm 51 days no PMO, and my next door neighbors had sex really loud. I've been having urges anyways just in general, but I couldn't help but listen in. Is this a reset? NO PMO. I just listened. Really not my fault because I didn't search it out

    Oh yeah and I got super aroused. I know the girl and she's really pretty.
     
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  2. Knock on the doors and ask if you can join in. Na seriously that’s not a reset, it’s real life just don’t watch bloody porn whatever you do.
     
  3. fellowBrother

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    Haven't watched porn in 6 months or more. MO is my biggest problem.
     
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  4. Seawolfee

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    Well my parents used to do this when they thought i was asleep.... I Dont know If i ever forgive them this. It destroyed my young Life. Now i would do smth about it but back then? Ehh i wish they were Not so dumb. I think it is Not reset but next time Maybe play music to mute them. Good luck bro
     
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  5. fellowBrother

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    Lol thankfully my parents room was no where near mine growing up. Either way that is just gross. But glad to hear it's not a reset. Really trying my hardest. 51 days is a new record and I am ridiculously horny.
     
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  6. Seawolfee

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    Well it will pass. I was on day 60, now i am fine
     
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  7. I know I shouldn't laugh at your misfortune but this is pretty funny. It must be really difficult for you. I know when I hear something like that, I can't help but listen, thankfully people don't seem to be getting any around where I live lol
     
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  8. fellowBrother

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    SOOOO glad to hear you're doing better! There is hope! :)
     
  9. fellowBrother

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    LOL honestly it is really funny. I always get screwed when i'm furthest in my streaks. This time i'm not giving in. Not worth it!!!!
     
  10. Theamos

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    Guess what parents like sex that is how you got here
     
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  11. llortaton

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    Seawolf, how the fuck do you make it so far? What gives you the courage to deal with urges? Tell me! What gives you the courage to deal with urges?!?!
     
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    I'll 2nd that ^^^. Also, what day did the urges stop? I'm up at 1am because I can't sleep because of urges. Literally holding on for dear life tonight
     
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    Fight the good fight . . .

    Battles come from all angles . . .
     
  14. lol, this is a comic situation!
    Well, u can try the suggestion of playing music, and maybe be a devil incarnate and knock on their door and ask them to tone it down or something.
    Anyway, good luck.
     
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  15. Seawolfee

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    Hmm i think it is a combination of few things. First of all i think that it is God who helpes me a lot! Then music. When i listen to music i imagine that i am finnaly free, with wife, i am doing my carrer. When i am about to fap, i recall the fell of guilty and shame after that. Cold showers are good too and workout. And i go out with friends as often as it is possible. Staying at home is dangerous. And Every day when i woke up i speak this words „Becouse we do Not beg for freedom, we fight for it” So lets say these are my motivations. When i hit 90 i will write what changed in my Life so far. Good luck!
     
  16. savitri

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    What about trolling them till embarassment - like immitate the moans till they feel so awkward they stop. Or some funny line
     
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  17. I think that to make it through nofap like a boss, you have to be hard on yourself. Personally, for myself, I would give myself a free pass for the first time but if I deliberately chime in again knowing that it is going to give me a free dopamine hit then it’s a reset. (Not relapse).... plus, it sounds like you are sitting in your room when you should be out running or socializing. I can’t think of anything more detrimental to ones menal health than to be alone in the room listening to said pretty girls getting f’d while you try to overcome a sexual addiction. Come on brother use your noggin! You got this!
     
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  18. savitri

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    Maybe it's happening at night when the guy needs to get rest rather than go out 'running or socializing'. Or be made to listen to some shallow, unconsiderate, selfish arrogant people's bestial endeavors.. Idk for you but such ppl having loud sex make me really angry.
     
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  19. Do I want to take freezing cold showers in the middle of the winter? No I don’t but I do what I have to do to snap out of my ways. do I want to eat a kale and spinach smoothie when I could eat a baconator? No I don’t but I do what I have to do to catalyze repair of my brain. He is literally asking the nofap community if it’s ok that he is listening in to this girl getting f’d while he is getting super turned on by it. He is desperate. He needs to be told to get the f out and go for a run. No more excuses for him please
     
  20. savitri

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    For different people different things work. I personally get not aroused but angry when I hear neighbors or see a couple making out in public.
    Seems to me you are challenging fate here. Let's see how you are able to go for a run at midnight till 2 a.m. when they finally decide to call it a night and what could happen during a late night run in the park. And do it every night! How long will u endure..
    Of course these are only speculations since the OP did not engage further.
     
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