Never had a wet dream

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Jan 2, 2020.

  1. Hi,

    Has anyone got any thoughts on what might be considered normal in terms of having wet dreams? I'm 29 and have never experienced one. The most I got in to nofap was about a 30 day streak or so without relapse or edging, but never had one in that time. At its worst, I was pmo'ing 3-4 times a day, as part of a near 18-year addiction.

    I've seen posts that show a lot of guys actually seem to hate or at least dislike having them. Any particular reason? Anyone feel the opposite?

    Not sure why I'm a bit hung up on this, but it's interesting to know what other guys think or have experienced.
     
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  2. CodeTalker

    CodeTalker Fapstronaut

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    Hate it because it’s always a weird dream. It doesn’t feel good (it’s like my balls are exploding). Have to cleanup in the middle of the night. And increase chance of relapse the next days.
     
  3. That's interesting. I'd assume it just felt as good as an orgasm reached through sex. Can understand what you mean about increased possibility of relapsing though. How often do you experience them?
     
  4. I'd love to have one--just for the experience. Never have. Nearly did a couple of nights ago when I awoke from a sex dream feeling almost like I was going to ejaculate.
     
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  5. engelman

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    I think I've only had like 2 wet dreams in my life and they were while I was in my 5-month streak of non PMO, 4 years ago or so. In my case, I remember it as something great. I did enjoy them, first because of the release and second because they were a great hallmark of my progress. I'm willing to have them again (seriously).

    They didn't increase the chance of a relapse, but you have to be (as always) on guard.
     
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  6. i_have_pizza

    i_have_pizza Fapstronaut

    I'm 29. Was having dreams about sex but never experienced wet dreams.
     
  7. People here have given varying times before getting wet dreams, but 30 days is way too little! As you've been severely addicted, you might have to wait as long as two years of hard mode (no sex as well as no masturbation) before you get one.

    Seriously, don't worry about it. Your body will do it if it needs to. If you want to experience it just for the experience, avoid all stimulation (porn, masturbation, sex) until it happens, however long it might take.
     
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  8. CodeTalker

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    Usually less than a week on nofap. Often happened when I started to watch P but didn’t M.
    Didn’t have one in current streak. Probably my longest without wet dream.
     
  9. engelman

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    I didn't have any in my previous 2 and 3-month streaks. Neither I had in this one yet.
     
  10. Master Chips

    Master Chips Fapstronaut

    Wet dreams are the natural process how our semen cycle works, however, once a person starts PMOing it stops. Once you stop PMO it will recover in day 30-40
     
  11. Some interesting feedback here, thanks everyone. I think I want to experience one more for the sensation. Often felt weird, I guess, about not actually having had one.
     
  12. i_have_pizza

    i_have_pizza Fapstronaut

    I'm curious, do you need to dream about sex to have wet dream?
     
  13. CodeTalker

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    Every time it happened it was kinda sexual. But the situation wasnt always. Like in my dream I’m just sitting on a chair and I know I will O, try to avoid it but I can’t.
    Many time I dream I actually watch P and then it happen.
     
  14. It took me about 70 days of NoFap before my first one. Also, it happened on the first day I stopped falling asleep to YouTube videos. If you stop fucking with your brain activity it will probably help.
     

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