Never joined a forum ... but fck it. I need help.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by TheDon1991, Jan 12, 2018.

  1. TheDon1991

    TheDon1991 New Fapstronaut

    Wastup. Title says it all. I'm not used to this but I'm on day 5. YouTube videos aren't doing it for me anymore. I started diving into the porn world when I was 11 (15 years) the longest I've gone is 9 days. I was 13 and a chick I was dating asked me to stop. Long story short, this is the second longest I've gone w/o it. I'm motivated but need a strong deterrence to steer me clear of chokin the chicken. If there are any vids, advice or whatever it would be appreciated. I'm somewhat on edge.

    I wanna damn near attack every female I see.
    It's a good side effect but I need some help controlling it.
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  2. Hey @TheDon1991 ,

    There is so much support on this forum, the profiles and the various groups. It works if you work it. I don't offer advise. I offer only my ESH (experience, strength and hope).

    Work it? Oh yeah. There's work to be done, that's what's worked for me. Two things I've found necessary.

    1. I had to Learn the NoFap Program.

    2. Getting involved with the community on here was vital to help my recovery.

    Learn the NoFap Program
    The resources listed on the "New Users: List of Rebooting Resources" helped me find my way around the reasons behind the program and the terms used.

    They are:

    You can find this same list on the top of the forum you posted this message on at - the "New to NoFap" forum.

    Get Involved with the Community
    The community has been my lifeline. I've found journals I love, people who are very supportive and a place where I could get to work helping in a small way others.

    I'm nobody important around here. Just a normal user with no magic powers.

    But, I can:

    • Read Journals, and comment when I have ESH
    • Find people I admire and stay in touch via their profiles
    • Pick a forum and make sure evvery post gets and answer. I can't answer them all, but that's good - different opinions make for a better group.
    • Post in my journal (I could be better at it - but I do milestone posts at least) To make a journal go to the section listed by age and start one. Keep all your journal posts in one thread. But, for random thoughts, you can create a new thread.
    Looking forward to seeing you around on the forums,

    - L

    PS - Think of pmo like a wolf. Stay near the center of the group with the winners and the wolf has a more difficult time finding you. But, stray near the edges of the community and the wolf can pick you off.
  3. One of the ways I got involved with the fellowship was by reading some really great journals.

    I've included journals from all age groups, spiritual members, religious members, secular members, male and female. You should find journals that help. If not, look around, there are hundreds of others from which to choose. When I say "it works if you work it", reading journals is part of that work.

    Once you open a journal, click "Watch Thread" in the upper right of the page to get alerts when new posts are made. Here are just a few:

    @2525 Journals at:
    @Visor Journals at:
    @Dragonnlife Journals at:
    @weddingnails Journals at:
    @Struggle Bug Journals at:
    @BigDawg913 Journals at:
    @Sunshadow Journals at:
    @kropo82 Journals at:
    @tet2vd Journals at:
    @Protagoras Journals at:
    @Tomoya Okazaki Journals at:

    There are many more, and you can discover them on your own. But, these are great places to start.

    This is a work in progress. So, if a journal has changed or is no longer active, look around there are some amazing journals on here.

    - L

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