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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by CaptianTurtle, Jun 2, 2019.

  1. CaptianTurtle

    CaptianTurtle New Fapstronaut

    Hello all,

    So I'm 29 now and for over 15 years I've been a porn addict. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years and I have NO IDEA what sex feels like.

    My girlfriend would put out weekly and I noticed that I could never get it up, she didn't mind, but I do. It's been 6 years of me wanting to have sex with her so bad but never able to get it up or keep it up. If I get lucky enough to get inside her vagina I CAN'T FEEL it and I get soft in her vagina and stop.

    For 6 years I told myself it's porn induced erectile dysfunction. I see a therapist for this issue and he told me about NoFap.

    I want to go 90 days (and beyond if I can) without porn or masturbation. I just want it to be my girlfriend, no porn, no imagination and no masturbation. I want to get acclimated to REAL SEX.

    My porn addiction made me skip classes to the point where all I do is get academic warnings and I recently lost my job. I lost my job because I was always late for work because I NEEDED to look at porn before my shift. I stopped showering and taking care of myself. I have gingivitis, I didn't even bother with hygeive, I just sit up in my room like a goblin and fap a day. Has anybody else let their hygiene go from this addiction?

    Anyways. I am ready to get my sex life together and my life in general.

    But I have so much doubt. Basicly I want people to let me know that if I start this I will finally be able to have sex successfully. If I quit the porn and masturbation and only have my girlfriend be my sexual outlet Will I finally end the ED? Will I finally be able to have real sex?

    Thank you
  2. This plan should eventually allow you to have real sex, but it may take a very long time to achieve this...your brain will take a while to rewire, and your dick may take a while to start working in sync with your brain, so you'll need to be patient. But what do you have to lose? you are already unable to have sex with your GF, which seems like a very good goal.
    Praying for your success, CT!
  3. Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut

  4. Welcome.
    You will find some good advice on the Success Stories forum.
  5. Freehogg

    Freehogg New Fapstronaut

    Great to find another newcomer!
    I found this forum from my newly installed Reborn Ap. So here I am

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