New Elite Group accepting Initiates: F.I.N.A.O.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by salvage, Apr 6, 2014.

  1. Hey guys! I'm glad to have been accepted in this group. I plan never to watch porn purposely neither to masturbate ever. I'm catholic, virgin, and I'd like to wait for marriage and practice abstinence. Or I'll maybe live a religious life. I don't know.

    I love your idea, galaxim! Senku boards are so entertaining and it's a great visual for abstaining from PMO.

    About this group, I remember when I started NoFap, I had wet dreams, I thought it was reality and I actually woke up not from the orgasm, but because I was SOOO pissed off at myself to have to reset my counter. It was a dream so it of course didn't counted, but long story short, I so much couldn't stand having to quit this group, it reinforce even more my desire to be porn and masturbation free.
    I believe I have started to have a military approach to everything since I started NoFap, especially with the use of my routine. I also believe that very strictly sticking to this daily schedule is the most part of my success. When I was in Paris for holidays, as I lived with my famiy I couldn't follow my routine and I was horribly depressed. I came back two days ago and I already feel happier than I've never been.

    Stay strong khos!
     
  2. salvage

    salvage Fapstronaut

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    Yes, we are glad to have you in our group. I have removed form the group a couple of guys who were under the 3 days. Of course they are welcome to come back once they meet the requirements that all 28 members of the group currently uphold. It is just a little fun way of encouraging each other.
     
  3. omarcoming

    omarcoming Fapstronaut

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    What's the group's view on MO without P?

    My accountability partner has dropped off the face of the planet so I would be keen to join the group I reckon :)
     
  4. salvage

    salvage Fapstronaut

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    Hello! I speak for the group in that we are strictly no PMO. Seeing that your counter says 18 days since you last PMO'd I reckon you will fit in just fine. Here we are to help with whatever you may need.

    -Salv.
     
  5. Quebadour

    Quebadour New Fapstronaut

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    Heyo. This is Quebadour here, and I am here for a reason. I have previously completed two resets in my life, one at 110 days, the other at 90, both for very different reasons. I have a new reason this time around too. It is my goal, so cut things out of my life that leave me more self absorbed than is reasonable. I want to learn to maintain my relationships and perhaps overcome by default indifference to them.

    That being said, My goal with this particular group is to be as encouraging as possible. No longer focusing on myself, because as this group says, relapse is not an option. Rather I would strengthen those around me, and feed off of the energy of the common goal, and success that we are here to experience.

    Each day is a choice, and a struggle. But it is a struggle that can be won.
     
  6. salvage

    salvage Fapstronaut

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    Just wanted to share to you all, what it is that we are really pushing for. If happiness is giving, and PMO is all about receiving then PMO is the antithesis of happiness or our worst enemy. Let us all work on being more happy and fulfilled human beings. I am sharing a very touching video with you guys.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaWA2GbcnJU
     
  7. Basic Plains

    Basic Plains Fapstronaut

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    I would like to join this group because I think a more structured group of guys would be good for me. the more I know people that people will know when I fail, the more likely I will stay away from it. that being said I am really new to this site and I hope to do well on my road to victory over PMO but I don't expect to be perfect on my first try (I will try my best but I might fail) should I still join or should I just do the regular forum stuff?
     
  8. like a som bo d

    like a som bo d Fapstronaut

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    I would like to join. I'm committed to getting PMO out of my life entirely. Even though it's only been just over 5 days since I last viewed sexual images, I don't consider PMO an option in my life anymore. I've started taking cold showers exclusively, meditating, getting back into kettlebell excercising. I use the elastic band trick to ward off sexual thoughts. My quitting PMO is motivated by a desire for self-mastery not by feelings of guilt and shame or for the sake of a deity. If you accept me into your group, fine. If not, that will have no impact on my desire to attain self-mastery.
     
  9. galaxim

    galaxim Fapstronaut

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    Thank you! It's really beautiful and inspiring.
    Hold on up there, my friends: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Caspar_David_Friedrich_032_%28The_wanderer_above_the_sea_of_fog%29.jpg

     
  10. galaxim

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    Hi! I believe we all have different reasons for quitting PMO: no reason is better than the other. I believe in God, but I'm not doing this because of guilt/shame, neither for religious reasons in general. I'm doing this to achieve freedom and to live a better life. Actually, I believe guilt makes the recovery process harder -or even impossible- I think it's better to see the problem of PMO from the perspective of responsability for our own actions and the type of life that we want to live.
    As far as I'm concerned, welcome to the group.
    I would like to give an official welcome from my part to cocorosie, omarcoming, Quebadour and yellowtimo.


     
  11. Basic Plains

    Basic Plains Fapstronaut

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    thanks galaxim I think I would like to join this group I am committed to trying my best. and like all parents say to their kids "all you can do is give it your best, that's all that is required of you!" Ill send my request to join this group soon.
     
  12. like a som bo d

    like a som bo d Fapstronaut

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    apparently this group is too elite for me... that's alright. peace out
     
  13. galaxim

    galaxim Fapstronaut

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    I have relapsed. No porn, but M until O, so I'm out. Nevertheless, I'll continue with my journey outside the group. Good luck to everyone.
     
  14. salvage

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    Hey man no problem, you are welcome to always come back! Soon the minimum is going to be raised to 10 days since our group is getting larger, and older but I am sure you will get there! Best wishes man. -Salv.
     

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