New guy

Hi there! (Sorry for my english)

I feel weird from a year or two ago, I notice I don't have the same capacity to concentrate as I had before, even when I'm talking with people I forget easily what I was going to say or I just forget I told something to someone and repeat it again. So yeah, basically I have difficulties on focusing.

Also, I have problems interacting with people, It could be because english is not my mother tongue, but I feel shy when I'm with people and I barely speak, just listen to them. Most of the time I don't know what to talk about.

Regarding to the sexual issue, I PMO 4-5 times a week and when I have sex I feel it's kind of boring, sometimes I don't have desire, and if I want to keep the erection I need to focus and think about something really specific. Also, sometimes I struggle to get to O, it's true it's easier when I do PMO because I can control how I do it, but still having problems.

I think this are the main reasons why I want to join this community, I've read about the advantages it has to remove PMO from our lifes, and I think this "issues" above could be fixed or improve.


Thanks for reading! If you don't understand something I can try to explain it better.

 

Well, i'm on my second day so I don't have any strategy yet, I'll plan them as I go. When I start feeling the need, then I'll thing about how to distract my mind.