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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Avalian, May 8, 2020.

Can Nofap be healthy just by quitting porn but not masturbation?

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  1. Avalian

    Avalian New Fapstronaut

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    Am porn user since 13 and Only in my 24 could i be with my partner for intercourse when I noticed I had hard time keeping an erection. Even though I often got hard during the initial minutes of kissing and foreplay but it fell asleep and this began to worry me. I began to take pill for ED but i was in deep shame and depressed.
    Am a traveller on the move since one year now, does enough physical movement, fit and healthy. But a chain smoker which i thought could be the reason as i never had any clue about PIED.
    I consulted a doctor who kind of laughed at me when i mentioned my problem and said i was very healthy and maybe i should control smoking(cig and weed) and maintain a very healthy diet and i should be okay.
    In april 2020, i happen to randomly see this tedx talk on how porn can be harmful and how ED got the young mens attention, I began to research and heard about Nofap.
    Am on my 6th week from porn but not from masturbation as now we are in a distant relation and sometimes(1s in two weeks,maybe) we video sex chats.
    I worry if i have to heal myself, should i stay away from masturbation(once in a week is how my count now, also because my body intensely ask for it) or my no to porn pledge(around 40days now) will do to cure my ED?

    I also see myself in sex in few weeks time and am bit worried as i never could have sex without the pill before(its been 5 months since my last sex). Now i feel great as I get boner almost every morning and get hard easily.
    I would really be greatful to know your opinion if I Should also fully stop masturbation? Or just Porn?
    New to the community and thanks so much everyone here for the better cause.
    Peace and love
     
  2. Hello
    I am not an expert in this matter, but being just a normal fellow member I will suggest you one thing. Just tell urself and stop both masturbation and sex for almost 90 days. I know it is not easy but self commitment is the most important. See u have started it so only u can stop it and no one else could. So Stop PMO for 90days and u will rock after that. Tell ur gf that u r in something so u need time for 90 days I think She will also understand. Keep calm.
     
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  3. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    Welcome
    Please, start studying carefully what's happening in your mind > https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/

    First time without porn will be stressful , but if you resist , in some months you will feel reborn.
    So if you have any temptation , is okay to masturbate if you can't handle the stress , but don't exceed and don't porn anymore.
    No more instagram pictures of models. No more erotic imagines , erotic stories or asmr.
    If you experience ''flatline'' and low libido , resist.
    >https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/por...l-size-and-or-libido-are-decreasing-flatline/

    The brain will try to win you and to get some triggers for the seek of dopamine. Resist

    Hi , it's a personal decision. If you feel really sick and want a drastical change to emprove faster , No PMO is what you need.
    It will train your willpower and forge your mind. Abstain from masturbation is not always necessary , it's important to masturbate less , not one in a day , maybe one in a week with only your fantasy and a lubrificant like body oil.
    I think in your case it could be good because ED it's a serious issue.
     
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