New here. Starting a new journey. Wish me luck

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by juayboy79, Sep 29, 2019.

  1. juayboy79

    juayboy79 Fapstronaut

    Hi, Came across this website through an article in bbc on this addiction on porn by the founder of this forum.

    I guess I have a big problem. I started watching porn since I was 13yrs old and have really an issue with it. Still grappling with it for 2 decades.

    Even as I speak now, I am thinking of watching the latest porn I have download on my phone. With watching I would fap. My tapping is the worst. I do it every night before I go to sleep and that is done in conjunction with watching porn.

    I have tried to abstain from watching and fapping for a week cold turkey style but the following week I would relapse.

    I tried deleting my porn movies collection but after a week of deleting it, I would download it again.

    I hope I can start this journey to cure this addiction and no relapse with the help and support in this community
  2. Milhouse Van Houten

    Milhouse Van Houten Fapstronaut

  3. juayboy79

    juayboy79 Fapstronaut

    Thanks. Will keep it in my mind. I started this addiction when a friend of mine showed me a Hong Kong softcore magazine he took from his dad. I'm from South East Asia.

    At that time, I was only 13years old and curious about female body parts. So seeing pictures of adult women were satisfying. Then proceed to videos and that’s when I start fapping.

    2 decades later still watching and downloading them and fapping. I felt that as if I'm a weirdo.

    First thing, I will be doing is to delete my downloaded video in my phone.
  4. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | Forum Rules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the many challenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
  5. juayboy79

    juayboy79 Fapstronaut

    Phew. Day 1. I managed to delete 6/12 porn films in my hp. Did not watch the remaining 6 and did not masturbate

    Today another day. Goal delete the next 6 and move on.
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  6. Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

    People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
  7. juayboy79

    juayboy79 Fapstronaut

    Hi peeps just an update. I doing the 7-days challenge and I have to say so far so good. Day 2 was the most challenging. Suddenly, in the middle of my day, my brain started the urge to watch or doenload porn. I endured and just tried to focus on work. It was so tempting to grab the phone and browse the torrents. I persevered and managed to clear day 2.

    Today is Day 3 and it has been good. With a heavy heart i started to unfollow many tumblr pages that featured porn and snipes and sharing wives and gfs pictures or videos. Felt accomplished & proud with myself. A few more to do list. Yet to delete 6 more porn movies in my phones and in my back up hard disks.

    I have question, should i unfollow gravure models ig? Anyways thanks for the support so far

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