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  1. LifeAllTheWay

    LifeAllTheWay New Fapstronaut

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    I can't believe it's come to this but it's so bad, I am 28 years old and struggling to maintain an erection with gorgeous women because I can't stop watching porn every day. I want to be able to get our there and start a serious relationship but I'm so insecure about my erectile dysfunction that it really holds me back. I can't let porn control me or my erection, please support me on this journey and thank you.
     
  2. Gmork

    Gmork Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap @LifeAllTheWay
    You're not alone in your situation, and you've made the first important step towards taking back control of your life.
    There are some great people here with stories similar to your own, and wealth of knowledge, perspective and experiences in the battle to beat ED, and be less of a slave to our subconscious urges.
    Very best wishes to you on your journey toward self improvement.
     
  3. HELLSPAWN_SAIYAN

    HELLSPAWN_SAIYAN Fapstronaut

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    I support you. I am 26.... I can’t believe I am this old and still have had the problem. New here. On nofap for about a year now. That’s when I learned about it and slowly changing. I go on streaks of 30-49 days but this time I am really making a comeback! You can do it! Just do nofap, and in time, you’ll slowly change for the better for that gorgeous girl!
     
  4. Welcome to nofap, best of luck on your journey :)
     
  5. Hey welcome to the NoFap forum : )

    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!


    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:

    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button / Set up your day counter / Rebooting Resources/ About NoFap/ Support NoFap


    Here is just some advice:


    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)


    Then secondly I just advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.


    Theres a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and give some help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!


    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal/log (in the appropriate section for you) and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.


    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
  6. The Free Bird

    The Free Bird Fapstronaut

    Hi, welcome to the community

    I would recommend you to stay in touch with members and read their success stories. You may also learn tricks to avoid the short-term pleasure and to face the temptations.

    Be AWARE of your habits and control what you see and what/who you spend your time with.

    It's also important to limit the usage of social media. In addition, never be free! Use your free time as much as possible and do sports, exercise, attend classes, etc.


    This video contains everything that you need to know about porn addiction. Lastly, here is a collection of ways to deal with the urges which worked great for me.

    ֍ You got this my friend ֍
     
  7. MuscularSherlockHolmes

    MuscularSherlockHolmes Fapstronaut

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    Hi there...
    Welcome to the community :)
     
  8. HELLSPAWN_SAIYAN

    HELLSPAWN_SAIYAN Fapstronaut

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    I would like to join but I know I would not check in every week. I am terrible at that stuff.
     
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  9. No problem, once a month is fine too.. up to you brother, whatever you do, do whats best for your recovery. Good luck on your journey.
     
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  10. HELLSPAWN_SAIYAN

    HELLSPAWN_SAIYAN Fapstronaut

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    Then put me in the matrix! @Mowgli 32
     
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  11. Og007

    Og007 Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the community.
    We all are together to fight through this long journey!

    To a better version of ourselves!
     

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