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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Papipaul, Jun 24, 2020.

  1. Papipaul

    Papipaul Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys,
    I'm a 33 year old male who just realised I'm addicted to cam girls and have been for about 4 years now. I've previously been addicted to porn since I was 18, also something I've only recently realised.

    I just finished what I've told myself will be my last ever cam session. I'm not as deep in the hole as some seem to be on here (thankfully) but a rough guess is I've spent 4.5- 5.5k in the last 4 years and it absolutely sickens me. I mean I'm a relatively decent looking bloke, bit of a gym bunny so in shape, starting to age a little now but in the last 18 months alone I've had 3 girls who are every bit as good looking as these cam girls call themselves my gf. It never lasts. I lose interest. I don't get much stimulation from sex as too used to jacking off. I do get extremely turned on when they jack me off but sex and oral? Really doesn't do much for me. I soon lose desire for them after a few awkward attempts at sex. And I kind of let the relationship drift away. I'm currently saving for a house deposit and I'm half way there but have realised in the last 3 weeks alone I've done 160 quid on camming. Why do I continue this ridiculous and self destructive behaviou?. I'm a relatively attractive guy with a decent enough job and pay. I'm told I'm funny etc and do okay in landing women without even trying that hard tbh

    . But it never goes anywhere due to this damm issue. I want to buy a place and move forward in life not throw my hard earned money down the toilet. Sorry for the disjointed message. It's late and I'm venting. I'm going for no fapping and plan of succeeding. Any advice would be welcome.

    Regards.
     
  2. luluuu

    luluuu Fapstronaut

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    Hi mate !!! A warm welcome to NoFap .. Take a pledge today to leave the bad behind and start a new life !! this group will keep u motivated and help u in fighting the PMO . .. Immediately start for hard mode .. keep yourself busy .. don't be alone .. install porn blockers .. avoid using gadgets during night !! hope it helps

    I was addicted to PMO for last 10 years ,, I have started hard mode on 12th of June and continued till now.. yes their are urges ,, sometimes controllable ,, sometimes uncontrollable , in these days I only visited porn sites for only 3 times(big achievement for me), but did not touched my private parts so did not relapse.. thanks to God . !!

    looking forward to stop that also!

    So all the very best !! post anything u need help with !
     
  3. Master Chips

    Master Chips Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the community!
    I hope soon you will be away from this addiction. I would recommend you to cut the triggering apps and replace them with other activities. Start a strategy, a journal, you may encounter some withdrawals for some time but never edge because that what makes it worse. All the best :)
     
  4. champion_321

    champion_321 Fapstronaut

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    Welcome man, I also recommend you get an alternative self improving activity that will occopy your mind when "you should have been on cam"(no pun intended). You'll not just avoid porn but you'll also achieve something positive.
     
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  5. Welcome to the community ;) all the best on your journey, if you have any questions or concerns please dont hesitate to ask us. Have a great day.
     
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