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[JacksonR]

I’m going to be honest, I am currently 12 - and I am very aware that I’m going to get banned - and I have been addicted since I was 9. It’s a really long story, but long-story-short; I was scrolling through various images until I found pornography, and ever since then I’ve kept looking at it.

I’ve recently quit as of ~12 days ago. Let me tell you that it has been terrible, and when my parents ask why I’m upset and miserable all the time, I can’t just reply with, “Oh, yeah: I just have been watching porn and now I quit so my main source of dopamine is being cut off”.

I just need overall advice

 

[Chaos Spayce Marine]

Hey kid, first off im sorry you exposed to this stuff so young, secondly you are doing better than most of us did realising how damaging and nasty this stuff is at such a young age.

Honestly man id speak to your dad about it, its humbling and very difficult, trust me i struggled with it and im 23. But he will likely be the best person to give you advice on such things, he knows you, your his son, and trust me, hes likely seen porn before.

Other than that man, focus on what makes you happy, hobbies, martial arts, running around with your pals, live in the real, get off your phone and your xbox, good luck lil man, and god bless.

 

[JacksonR]

Hey kid, first off im sorry you exposed to this stuff so young, secondly you are doing better than most of us did realising how damaging and nasty this stuff is at such a young age.

Honestly man id speak to your dad about it, its humbling and very difficult, trust me i struggled with it and im 23. But he will likely be the best person to give you advice on such things, he knows you, your his son, and trust me, hes likely seen porn before.

Other than that man, focus on what makes you happy, hobbies, martial arts, running around with your pals, live in the real, get off your phone and your xbox, good luck lil man, and god bless.

Yeah I’m pretty sure my dad used to watch porn from many little bits of evidence that I’m sure he doesn’t mean to spread, but it just slips out of his mouth lol.

and yeah me and my dad have an extremely strong relationship right now. He’s the most supportive person I know. We do karaoke almost everyday even though he works, and we make music together as well.

a major distraction has been music for me. I recently found this band that ultimately stopped me from killing myself because I loved their music too much. And no, this isn’t some random guy on the internet pretending to be all emo and stuff just for attention, this is actual real stuff.

one thing I have a lot of problems with is the fact that I just want someone to cuddle with. Not even someone to have sex with I just want someone. I recognize the fact that I’m too young for relationships and it’s heartbreaking. As I move onto Middle School (junior high) I’m really afraid that I’m going to be drawn to all these people for the sole reason of thinking that they are sex toys. I’ve always hated that side of me, and I always will.

on a more positive note, thanks for the comment you were surprisingly fast to respond! Sending peace and love from wherever you are

 

[Chaos Spayce Marine]

Yeah I’m pretty sure my dad used to watch porn from many little bits of evidence that I’m sure he doesn’t mean to spread, but it just slips out of his mouth lol.

and yeah me and my dad have an extremely strong relationship right now. He’s the most supportive person I know. We do karaoke almost everyday even though he works, and we make music together as well.

a major distraction has been music for me. I recently found this band that ultimately stopped me from killing myself because I loved their music too much. And no, this isn’t some random guy on the internet pretending to be all emo and stuff just for attention, this is actual real stuff.

one thing I have a lot of problems with is the fact that I just want someone to cuddle with. Not even someone to have sex with I just want someone. I recognize the fact that I’m too young for relationships and it’s heartbreaking. As I move onto Middle School (junior high) I’m really afraid that I’m going to be drawn to all these people for the sole reason of thinking that they are sex toys. I’ve always hated that side of me, and I always will.

on a more positive note, thanks for the comment you were surprisingly fast to respond! Sending peace and love from wherever you are

All the better to talk to your dad if you have a strong relationship with him, that was the issue with me because I dont really, at least not as strong as I would have liked. His primary concern is you and he will do everything in his power to help you out. Emo isnt always bad, especially the midwestern kind, listen to an album called “Feel Something” by a band called movements, i think youd enjoy it given your age and the circumstances youve mentioned. Seen em live, phenomenal band. Specifically the song Daylily might speak to you. Essentially alot of the album is centred around the idea of i feel terrible now but one day itll be “just fine”.

 

[JacksonR]

All the better to talk to your dad if you have a strong relationship with him, that was the issue with me because I dont really, at least not as strong as I would have liked. His primary concern is you and he will do everything in his power to help you out. Emo isnt always bad, especially the midwestern kind, listen to an album called “Feel Something” by a band called movements, i think youd enjoy it given your age and the circumstances youve mentioned. Seen em live, phenomenal band. Specifically the song Daylily might speak to you. Essentially alot of the album is centred around the idea of i feel terrible now but one day itll be “just fine”.

Alright I’ll check em out now.

 

[Chaos Spayce Marine]

Yeah I’m pretty sure my dad used to watch porn from many little bits of evidence that I’m sure he doesn’t mean to spread, but it just slips out of his mouth lol.

and yeah me and my dad have an extremely strong relationship right now. He’s the most supportive person I know. We do karaoke almost everyday even though he works, and we make music together as well.

a major distraction has been music for me. I recently found this band that ultimately stopped me from killing myself because I loved their music too much. And no, this isn’t some random guy on the internet pretending to be all emo and stuff just for attention, this is actual real stuff.

one thing I have a lot of problems with is the fact that I just want someone to cuddle with. Not even someone to have sex with I just want someone. I recognize the fact that I’m too young for relationships and it’s heartbreaking. As I move onto Middle School (junior high) I’m really afraid that I’m going to be drawn to all these people for the sole reason of thinking that they are sex toys. I’ve always hated that side of me, and I always will.

on a more positive note, thanks for the comment you were surprisingly fast to respond! Sending peace and love from wherever you are

Dont rush into anything relationships wise, doing some of that stuff too early can be just as damaging as porn, but if you like a girl in your class dude, why dont you set up a wee date , just keep it age appropriate.

 

[Chaos Spayce Marine]

“Outside for the first time in a long time
Lose yourself, sink into the sunlight
It's been a while since you felt right
But the warm nights are coming soon and you'll be just fine
You'll be just fine
You'll be just fine”

Thats the first verse of the song i mentioned, lil dude. Think itll help