New Kid, Same Problem

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by BCFirestar, Jul 1, 2019.

  1. BCFirestar

    BCFirestar New Fapstronaut

    Hey all, Coming at you live from a 23yo M. I've have plenty of relationships but through all of them I've faped. Always been ashamed, disappointed, known it's the issue, but dam it was nice. I need to turn that all around now. I'm about to enter the professional field and the longer this has been going on the weirder stuff I've been getting into. My performance during sex is now just me eating out them until they're good they get to sensitive. If you feel like I'm bragging I'm not, I hate it. I want to be able to normally engage in sex with a female partner without being afraid I've faped to recently. I've been on the site for 11 days, but it feels much longer. I made it 3 weeks after I discovered the site, but didn't make an account. When I realized I couldn't beat it on my own I got on here thinking that the account alone would save me. It didn't I've failed twice since then with about a week in-between. I'm slowly getting rid of stashes of porn I keep and hopefully over the holiday I can keep the (albeit short) streak alive. My question to you all is would something like Vigria help me satisfy my partner if my issue is that the porn gets me more turned on then the girl right now? I'm working to change that, but that's a slow process but one I'm willing to take all the way if I can remove all my triggers (ex porn on my comp and gdrive). Thanks for the semi long read and I'm happy to chat when I'm online (although the trips in the woods so if I don't respond I will when I get back).Take it easy all
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  2. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

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    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
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  3. Hey & Welcome to NoFap Community! :)

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