Hey Guys, I'm 10 days in to Nofap and haven't had any pmo... Going well so far. To give a little background, I've been pretty desensitized and as embarrassing as it is to admit- in recent years I've struggled with keeping an erection with chicks I've been with sexually. I believe its due to a blend of low self esteem since it has happened multiple times, not confident in my body (overweight), and the fact that I have had to jack off to more extreme material to finish and real life experience is not as exciting as jerking off at home...I have started to see results from my 10 days of nofap, like spurts of confidence, consistent morning wood, and when i catch myself fantasizing I get hard pretty easily. My question / concern is that I have started talking to a girl and things are going well, but I'm picking up signals that she wants to start heating things up. Is it a good idea to start talking to someone and trying to ease into engaging in sexual activity this soon, or am I setting myself up for failure and embarrassment like before? Im embarrassed to tell her my situation since we are not in a solid relationship. I was hoping someone may have been in my shoes before and could share their experience or pass on some tips or advice on how to move forward. If I need to abstain from sexual material both online and in life for an extensive period I'm committed, but its hard to live life without human affection. Is a 90 day reboot best for me? I thought maybe this could help level me out and get more aroused in a natural setting this way but Im scared of what may happen. Anything will help, Thanks in advance!