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  1. Patiencepays

    Patiencepays Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I'm new to this community. I recently married and my husband is addicted to porn. It has had a major affect on our sex life. He has been very open about the issue since the beginning of our relationship. His main symptoms are ED and requiring alot of stimulation to climax which he can only do when he manipulates himself. Things are getting better but, I have low esteem and confidence issues which dont help and im looking for a place of support and to express some of the feelings I have which i know would not be helpful to him. Thanks
     
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    Hello, lady. My forum name is Bragi as you see. God of poetry ad music in norse mythology.
    I can chat with you if you need to. I mean... not that theres much we can talk about but its just me. Id like to spend some time chatting with people and gaining knowlede, hearing their stories.
     
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    You are wonderful and imperfect. Don’t make his struggles about you. He needs to do his part.

    Those are words I wish my wife understood earlier and don’t blame herself.
     
  6. Patiencepays

    Patiencepays Fapstronaut

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    Thank you Kropo82. I've joined the SOS forum
     
  7. Patiencepays

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    Thank you Bragi I appreciate it
     
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    Thank you..he always tells me it's not about me and I'm learning to trust that . .I guess as a woman you always think there is something you should be doing or not doing so it's hard to accept the issue isnt about you when you believe the sign of a healthy relationship is that sex is all about you together
     
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