NEW REALM CHALLENGE (v2.0)

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by TangoTao, Nov 23, 2019.

  1. TangoTao

    TangoTao Fapstronaut

    @Demodectic thanks for staying in touch and keep strong!

    @john_spartan don't give up on it - once that hole sucks you in again, its no-man's land - my aproach - get back to it as soon as you can - its gonna suck initially but in few days you will be gratefull for every inch of effort of getting you rself back on track
     
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  2. john_spartan

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    Thank you for your great support @TangoTao, that's how I also approach things.
    I've relapsed so many times over the years that I don't even know what to do anymore.
     
  3. john_spartan

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    Day 1 check in,

    I don't feel good at all. There are many things that I can enumerate that make me feel bad, like frustration for not having accomplished anything, for me. But what bothers me the most it's that I don't feel good about myself, as a man. I don't feel the least confident or relaxed. I have this idea that when I will get rid of this PMO addiction I will feel good and everything will sort itself out. I had this belief for years, and seeing my poor progression I get discouraged. I thought that I should look some advice on how to be a man and connect with girls on youtube or on the internet. It all comes down to being a "bad boy". I don't feel a bad boy, and according to what I could gather from the videos I looked at on youtube, I am rather a "good boy". And truth be told, I really feel weak, and somewhat desperate.
    What I really want is neither to be a "good boy" nor a "bad boy", all I want is validation from me to myself. I want to be able to approve myself, and I will only be able to get that approval when PMO will stop. When PMO will stop I will know that I am worthy.

    john_spartan, over and out.
     
  4. Rogue_Steve

    Rogue_Steve Fapstronaut

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    That sounds a lot like part of a video by MamaMax that I watched about a month ago. He said that you don't want to be a "nice guy" or a douchebag, but instead strike a balance between the two. That would in turn make you the "cool guy."
     
  5. TangoTao

    TangoTao Fapstronaut

    therre was a ted talk a while back "simple advice for men" aka DON'T BE A DICK AND DON'T BE A PUSSY,
    ahhhhh... in all the particular situations of life - that advice is probabley not egnough, but rughly that's the guidline there....
     
  6. TangoTao

    TangoTao Fapstronaut

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    @Working17 has ascended;
    man are you there?
     
  7. john_spartan

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    Day 1 check in, I didn't make it further than 21 days in my last streak. Now I,m coming out of a daily relapse streak that lasted like a week or so.
    What causes me more pain than the actual relapse is the thought that time goes by and I didn't even managed to create a nice relationship with a girl, but instead I keep relapsing.
    But I know I have to keep trying, It's the only way.
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  8. TangoTao

    TangoTao Fapstronaut

    That's the triky part of it - once you go into that swamp its hard to regain the momentum - but you can see it on the positive side - i would reccomend to start soemthing new, and revise your strategies so far (your SADHANA - your spiritual/personal development practices),
     
  9. Pjoter

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    Hello Guys!

    I am on my day 5 hardmode and really motivated to go hard this time. My longest streak is 20 days but it was about 2 years ago. Since then I wasnt very serious about this, and been loosing hope when relapsing every few days.

    Only recently I figured out that its all about a discipline to make you a Man, and want to improve it on many fields. Been looking for a mastermind group to share some thoughts, keep going together, and support each other.

    Can I join please? :)
     
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  10. john_spartan

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    Day 4 check in, already looked at some porn but just that. I will reset the clock and start again. I'm not giving up even if I'll reset 1000 times and more. I will prevail, I will.
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  11. john_spartan

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    Day 0 again. I try once more.
     
  12. TangoTao

    TangoTao Fapstronaut

    i'm going away for a while, so there won't be much updates perhaps for coupleof weeks(if not indefinetly), surprise me and make some progress in that time,
    Till We Meet Again!
     

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