New rebooter

Hello everyone, i have been doing nofap for 13 days now, I have many questions and confusion, I am 20 years old, i have been first exposed to porn at 12 years old, i was not addicted to it and i rarely masturbated to it, instead i would use my imagination, My penis used to be extremely sensitive to the point if it comes in contact with anything i would get an erection, Anyway, days pass and i got addicted to porn, it gave me massive spikes of dopamine that my brain fed on for 8 years. I wont lie i felt my penis change by the passage of time, the more i PMO'd the worse it got. But as long as i was able to get hard and look at porn, nothing stopped me, i was foolish. My highest nofap streak was in 2017 and lasted 29 days, relapsed at the end of that day. Today, i still get morning wood here and there, and when that happens my penis is rock hard so im not worried about the functionality of my penis. But i am in a long distance relationship and during these past 13 days i have been doing nofap, me and my girlfriend would engage in phone sex, I want to know if that is considered relapsing.. I also want to add that i used to masturbate with tissue paper, no lube. But i was very aware of the risks of aggresive use and its dangers, i was always gentle using my penis never aggressively masturbated. But penis skin would get irritated by the friction of the tissue papers, Would that have done me any harm? Also, I tried to masturbate very softly today and i didnt feel any stimulation, my penis was too flaccid. I do get hard when my girlfriend says certain stuff, or if i need to pee, but not from physical stimulation, or imagination am i experiencing flatline?. I need advice from anyone with similar experience. Depending on the replies i will decide if i will continue counting the streak or start counting over from january 1st and consider phone sex a relapse.
Thanks everyone and happy to meet you all

 

Thanks skyfall1125!

 

Update: Day 25, low libido but i feel so much confident and happy, I broke up yesterday and was so depressed, i thought about relapsing but then i did 102 pushups in total really quick and that did it, I no longer wanted to relapse and my mind and will power became more solid. Im proud of myself and where i am at, 5 more days to complete 30 day challenge and start my journey to day 60, etc.

 

Relapsed on day 30 due to triggering images on discord nsfw. Back on track and aiming for a higher streak this time. Hopeful that i will not relapse anymore.