New Relationship While Rebooting - No Orgasm?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Aragorn36, Dec 23, 2019.

  1. Aragorn36

    Aragorn36 Fapstronaut

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    Hey all,

    I've got a lady that I think I'll be getting intimate with soon by the natural flow of things. I'm rebooting (13 days in) and wanting to refrain from having orgasms - like 1 per month or even less. Pretty sure I've got some kind of ED, but I can still get 75-80% hard I think? Enough to have penetrative sex.

    Do you have any advice for my situation with this girl?
    How should I approach this new relationship?
    Is edging and stopping before orgasm during real sex healthy?

    Any guidance or advice is much appreciated. Thanks!
     
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  2. https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/3-weeks-in-scroll-down.259653/

    I’m in the same boat except after 2 weeks My erection came fast & strong so it also depends on how much you’ve hurt yourself with Porn. I would suggest Keep doing you, Try to reboot a full 45ish days as most of the benefits will start to show, still depends on how your situation is though. https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/timeline-of-nofap-benefits.72350/

    Work out too Start building some stamina and endurance Let your body align itself
     
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  3. Also edging or stopping is not recommended
     
  4. Aragorn36

    Aragorn36 Fapstronaut

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    Right on, glad to hear! I found in the past if i left things for a few weeks glaces at real ladies would set me off quicker. I read your thread - keep posting in it, i want to follow your progress! Thanks for the reply!

    I will start hitting the gym and getting into better shape. I took a break from drinking as well, its almost been a month so thats compacting with all this haha. I definitely feel that "dopeamine craving" you speak of. For me pretty much all life seems dull without those two things right now (i know kinda dark haha). I found video games pacifies but i wonder if long term this is all part of the reboot and booze brain reboot
     
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    Aragorn36 Fapstronaut

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    What should I do for sex then if im trying to refrain from orgasms?
     
  6. Avoid it lol or at least give yourself a set amount of time or try soft mode reboot
     
  7. popefiction

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    Id say be open and clear very transparent going into the relationship to avoid any dissapointment. And Id reccomend not edging or atopping before orgasm via sex
     
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