New Sexual Fantasies

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Andrew0268, Mar 19, 2015.

  1. Andrew0268

    Andrew0268 Fapstronaut

    Has anyone here noticed a shift in sexual fantasies?

    I used to think about anal and 2 girls at the same time, having more than 1 girlfriend and f*$(%*# them on the same day, S&M, tying them up, and banging then hard.....

    Now I'm starting to think about their smiles, the way they make eye contact with you, hearing them laugh, stroking their hair, sleeping under a tree with them on a summer afternoon, dancing with them and that look they give you when they swoon....

    Anyone else having this shift?
  2. Thanatos

    Thanatos Fapstronaut

    Not so much new fantasy's, but my P related fantasies are dying everyday and I'm starting to like women that are more down to earth.
    It's really good to hear that you are getting natural fantasy's back!!
    I hope to be there soon.
  3. michgem0707

    michgem0707 Fapstronaut

    Fantasies changing to true desires. I am back to holding my wife, the wanting to have her near me.
    I lost all that through porn. I could not look her eye to eye with out feeling disgusted about my porn and the urges it was putting in my mind.
  4. himmelstoss

    himmelstoss Fapstronaut

    Mine are getting meaner lately. That romantic shit might be fun once in a while I guess.
  5. crushurcravings

    crushurcravings Fapstronaut

    Very much so! I am experiencing exactly the same. My porn induced fetishes are getting more and more disgusting day by day. A year from now should be amazing :D
  6. fapequalsdeath

    fapequalsdeath Fapstronaut

    Yes i get turned on but very little comapred to before. If that's your idea.
  7. Andrew0268

    Andrew0268 Fapstronaut

    It's not like my fantasies are all disappearing into nothing. And some intrigue and kinkiness is still there and strong. But so much of the need to dominate every aspect is going quickly. Maybe it's temporary and will come back in a while but I feel like it has diminished for good. Whatever is changing is a benefit and becoming more easy is a wonderful thing. I don't need to hold on to any fetishes that are programed by the industry as long as I stay away from being just another porn consumer.

    I like the changes.
  8. mpatrick_jm

    mpatrick_jm Fapstronaut

    I fully agree with you. Alot of the porn induced fetishes are leaving, but recently I have been just having more sexual day dreams and dreams. I will think of girlfriends from the past, past sexual exploits and even the ladies I missed. I think what I would do with them. Some good some bad. I feel like the urges are putting up a fight before they leave, but I definitely feel my brain reprogramming yo a former level of innocence. I still have my fantasies but they are not as aggressive and demeaning to the woman. I love what's happening to me and I am not turning back!
  9. tomtom

    tomtom Fapstronaut

    I've noticed the same thing... my fantasies derived from non-vanilla P have gone and been replaced with just being there with my wife.

    However, just yesterday I got some glimpses of things that I thought were in the past, perhaps because it had been a while since we actually had sex. But nothing compared to what it used to be at its worst.

    I love this, just keep going :)
    Last edited: Mar 21, 2015
  10. nowaste

    nowaste New Fapstronaut

    It has gotten worse for me. I reaaally crave the p subs. And the struggle is real. But the positive part is that I crave the p subs and no longer the m.
  11. tomtom

    tomtom Fapstronaut

    Nowaste: how long have you been going? It took perhaps 4 months to really get rid of most of the P fantasies...

    It will get better over time.
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