New to Fap

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by michael titmus, May 26, 2016.

  1. michael titmus

    michael titmus Fapstronaut

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    Hello am new to fap what advice can people give me on giving up porn and what are the benefits of this. I think this will be harder than giving up masturbating

    thanks mike
     
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  2. traveller22

    traveller22 Fapstronaut

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    Hi Michael & welcome.

    My suggestion would be for you to check out the links in my signature. They link to 1) a newbie page here on NoFap with lots of suggestions & 2) the 3-circle exercise, which a lot of people have found very helpful.

    There are many benefits to giving up porn. Our society continues with it's hypocritical position - "there's nothing wrong with porn" but woe to he/she who gets caught, especially if they're a celebrity.

    Most people realise deep down that there is something wrong with looking at porn. At best, it's a waste of time & a cop-out from forming meaningful relationships with real people.

    You can beat this addiction. You just need to be patient, persistent & apply a well-rounded plan.

    Strength to you!

    T22.
     
  3. michael titmus

    michael titmus Fapstronaut

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    thanks mate, its okay to have sex though isn't obviously with the right person/people?
     
  4. traveller22

    traveller22 Fapstronaut

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    I'm not sure what you mean - can you restate the question? Thanks, T22.
     
  5. michael titmus

    michael titmus Fapstronaut

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    is it okay to have sex with this challenge, thats okay isn't it?
     
  6. traveller22

    traveller22 Fapstronaut

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    That's up to you. You can set the challenge as "90 days without looking at porn", or "90 days with no Porn or M"....wherever you want to set the bar.

    A hard reboot would be 90 days without P or M.

    What are you aiming for?

    T22.
     

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