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New to No Faps; please help

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Live2win45, Sep 28, 2019.

  1. Live2win45

    Live2win45 Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I'm a 28 year old male. I've overcome alcohol & drug addiction with the help of the 12 steps..However, PMO has always been an addiction I overlooked, until I started noticing recently how compulsive I've been. I'd often joke about how much I do it as a way to maybe minimize the problem. Even without porn I'd find myself fapping in inappropriate places. And with porn the binges will take hours and I'd fap to stuff I'm otherwise repulsed by. I've had trouble in the sack and would often need porn to get aroused and I tend to view women as objects anymore. In summary, I'm sad of the energy and time lost, embarrassed of the lack of control, and scared of the progression. Im willing to take any suggestions. The longest I've made it was not even 2 days. I'm ready to commit and would appreciate any help. Thanks!
     
  2. an0n8200

    an0n8200 Fapstronaut

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    You're making the right choice by giving porn up. It seriously messes with you. Stay active on the forums and force yourself to leave the room for a while whenever you start to get urges. You can do this :)
     
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  3. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use theNoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | ForumRules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the manychallenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  4. Life's Journey

    Life's Journey Fapstronaut

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    Hi Live2win45, welcome here, and wishing you loads of strength and good luck to break with your PMO addiction. You can do it!
     
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  5. im’possible

    im’possible Fapstronaut

    You are full of p now, it's time to wash that out.

    Welcome to use path for men. It's free and it's helpful if you had 12 steps before.

    https://pathformen.com/courses/

    Find what's wrong with yourself first.
     
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  6. Live2win45

    Live2win45 Fapstronaut

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  7. Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

    People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     

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