New to NoFap. 24 y/o newbie

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Deleted Account, Jan 26, 2018.

  1. Hi All,

    I'm a 24 year old. I work full-time and go to school part time. I've always watched porn, but recently in the last year it has gotten worse. Every Night I find myself browsing the web for an hour or two looking at different genres of porn. I end up masterbating a lot at least 4-5 times a week. I'm trying to change that. I recently tried to live without P.M, I only lasted about a week then went back to my habits. I NEED TO CHANGE THIS!

    I am sexually active and recently I hooked-up with someone and I found myself in an awkward position where I couldn't get a hard on. I've never experienced this kind of situation. I believe because there wasn't porn playing. As soon as I got home I got onto the web and was able to J.O. with a hard on.

    I'm looking to take the first steps on changing this, I'm not sure where or how to start, but I know I can. Hopefully this NoFap Community and all good vibes can help. thanks for reading.
     
  2. todaysresolution

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    welcome! i hope you get well and over this problem
     
  3. Hey @Alikid ,

    I'm just a normal ordinary member. No moderator super powers and no special insite. I share my ESH (Experience, Strength and Hope) of what works for me.

    Just another warm welcome and a heart felt hello. This community has helped me so much.

    What worked for me was "working" it. It took hard work for me to complete a hard reboot (No pmo) for 120 days, then move into a Sex Positive mode.

    First, reading the literature published by NoFap itself along with reading journals.

    Then, doing the work. Writing in my journal and replying to introductions and other's journals.

    Finally, but not least, getting involved with the fellowship. I found it on the forums, but also in people's profiles. The forums tend to be longer posts, where the profiles tend to be more "conversational".

    That is what has worked for me. I like to remind myself that this community was here waiting for me with the lights on when I arrived. Now, I have to do my best to be there when someone comes to the community.

    * L

    PS:

    For me NoFap is 1/2 program & 1/2 fellowship.

    Click on these people and post a "hello" on their profiles.

    I've found that the bricks that hold this community together are cemented with the support of the members of the fellowship.

    @JakeO5
    @Arohamystic
    @MLMVSS
    @Rising Sun !!
    @Ready to be healthy
    @Brahmacharin
    @Struggle Bug
    @tet2vd
    @Satchi
    @BigDawg913
    @zakes
    @LilD
    @kropo82

    Look at with whom they exchange messages and you will find more profiles.

    So, if you would have found more profiles yourself, why suggest these particular ones as a start? Those relationships started with just saying hello. So, my ESH is that saying hello has kept the fellowship alive for myself.

    Looking forward to your success and in seeing you say hello on these profiles.
     

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