New to NoFap - And setting up my PM Challenge.

Sean17

Sean17

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Hello, I have been meaning to do this for a long time, Im in recovery from alcohol and drug abuse for the past number of years and by the grace of god I have been clean for almost 4 years. My love and indulgence in porn has reached alarming levels. Im always spending a chunk of my pay check on cam sites and trawling Xvideos and Porn hub till all hours in the morning. This is really starting to affect my life as not going out social drinking has very much made me a stay at home a lot of the time. I don't meet many women period. If I do meet them its totally at the wrong time to be flirting with them like in work or in a store etc. Main point is I have come to rely on Porn so heavily for sexual pleasure that I am mostly just not that pushed to go out and find a partner. Im going to try do PM Mode for 30 days and see how I get on, judging by what I have learned though research on the topic I should experience a good difference. I don't think this is going to be easy an I would appreciate any advice that people can offer. Thanks
for having this space, and I would like to wish you all well with your personal goals.
 
Thanks very much John

I appreciate the welcome. I really hope I can do this! I have experienced a lot of change in my life over the last few years since getting sober but this porn addiction as always had its grip on me, keeping me in the shadows as I have been known to stay up until 4/5 in the morning Fapping. The next day I would be dead to the world and I may feel only slightly better than if I had been drinking all night. It has come to a point where I just have decided to do something about it. I know its so Early into the challenge but I feel things are going very well so far. I think the main thing here is to begin to address my behaviour and things I associate with masturbation and porn, Avoid these things i.e. (Porn & Sexual content) and take up something else instead, i.e. meditation, drawing, walking or music etc. Its grand to think about it and understand how it would work but I need to actually work on these things in order for them to work and help me stay away from porn and become a happier healthier person.

Anyways I just needed to put that out there for myself.

Hope you are having a good day John! and hope to speak to you again in the future.

Seán
 
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