New to Nofap. Any help is appreciated!

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Sleazy-E 93, Aug 13, 2020.

  1. Sleazy-E 93

    Sleazy-E 93 New Fapstronaut

    Hey Guys. I’m new to Nofap, though I started my reboot 3 1/2 weeks ago and have remained faithful to it. I’m 26 and my life is very stable, especially since I’ll be sober 7 years from drugs and alcohol November 10th of this year.

    My question is a big one, and I don’t expect any complete answer, but definitely need some guidance!

    Every time I start a reboot I fall in love with the benefits of nofap. So much so that trading them for a sex or even a legitimate relationship feels like self betrayal. In my heart I know I would feel guilty, as though I’m doing myself a disservice because I’m my best, authentic self when rebooting.

    The dilemma is this: I’m young, starting to get some success and stability, and long to share it with the right girl. I was a late bloomer, so at 26 I look like I just graduated high school/am in my 1st year or 2 of college. Girls that would normally pay me no mind or were ‘out of my league’ go out of their way to get my attention this reboot.

    The temptation to get laid is definitely there, but is there a way I can do it while retaining my seed/vitality? I know tantra says men can have sex without ejaculating, some even claim it’s better/ induces multiple orgasms. Is this a safe/realistic middle ground? Or do I have no choice but to enjoy reboots until I give in to my lower nature and start all over again?

    Thank you all again!
  2. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

    For me sex is fine. Porn and excessive masturbation are not.
    If you just have sex and spread your seed this way is going to be a couple of times a weak at most. There are going to be weeks and months that you are not going to get laid at all and that's when you can enjoy the semen retention benefits too.

    At the end of the day is your call, enjoy sex with a girl and see how you feel about it. Don't make decisions until you try out all the possibilities you have over the table.
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  3. Osl0

    Osl0 Fapstronaut

    Hi, bro. Sex is natural, PMO is what we are fighting with. We are here to erase pornography( this is the root of almost every issue here) and we all know the benefits of breaking this addiction, such as better concentration, discipline, clearer mind and surround yourself with good vibes.
    Hope you have a great time and stay calm. If you want some advice, you can write to me.
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