New to Nofap. Any help is appreciated!

Hey Guys. I’m new to Nofap, though I started my reboot 3 1/2 weeks ago and have remained faithful to it. I’m 26 and my life is very stable, especially since I’ll be sober 7 years from drugs and alcohol November 10th of this year.

My question is a big one, and I don’t expect any complete answer, but definitely need some guidance!

Every time I start a reboot I fall in love with the benefits of nofap. So much so that trading them for a sex or even a legitimate relationship feels like self betrayal. In my heart I know I would feel guilty, as though I’m doing myself a disservice because I’m my best, authentic self when rebooting.

The dilemma is this: I’m young, starting to get some success and stability, and long to share it with the right girl. I was a late bloomer, so at 26 I look like I just graduated high school/am in my 1st year or 2 of college. Girls that would normally pay me no mind or were ‘out of my league’ go out of their way to get my attention this reboot.

The temptation to get laid is definitely there, but is there a way I can do it while retaining my seed/vitality? I know tantra says men can have sex without ejaculating, some even claim it’s better/ induces multiple orgasms. Is this a safe/realistic middle ground? Or do I have no choice but to enjoy reboots until I give in to my lower nature and start all over again?

Thank you all again!