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Alex Will

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Hey everyone,

I'm new to this but I'm so glad I've found this community. Porn has ruined my life and it has entirely held me back from my full potential with girls. I'm 21 years old and have had sex with 20 or so girls but I've recently been recovering from HOCD which is a demon if any of you have ever encountered it too. If so, don't hesitate to talk to me about it but basically that is my main motivation for nofap even though this has been a long time coming. It's been 5 days since I last PMO'd and I do feel better. I've just been struggling with closing on some girls as I'm still afraid that I won't be able to get it up. I had sex 3 days ago with a previous girl I had hooked up with a lot before and although I was really nervous I didn't have much trouble getting it up but I'm still afraid that I won't around girls that I haven't hooked up with before or a girl I want to have more of an extensive relationship with. I'm determined to not PMO again and although I have my urges I know that I can do it.
 
Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and not judge you. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
 
D . J . said:
Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and not judge you. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
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Honestly I don't know if I was really addicted to porn. It wasn't just something I kinda did everyday without even thinking about. It was more or less just a part of my day in some way and it was like that for probably 8 years and so I get small urges to watch porn but more so I get urges to just M in general but it'll soon go away once I let that thought go so I would just recommend to control the situation and know that in the end it isn't worth it.
 
The way you know something has control of you or not is if you can stop something ang never do it again, you control it, if you can't, it has control over you.

Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips to help you along your journey.
 
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