I learned about this site through Universal Man. I'm so glad there is something like this out there. It gives me hope and I know I'm not in this alone. I've been healing from porn addiction over the past several years. I've been married for several years and confessed to my wife Initially a few years back. Needless to say she was devastated. I committed to never viewing porn or any explicit content again. As you all know, that's an almost impossible commitment to make, but in the moment I was so scared to lose my wife that I made the promise in the hopes that maybe something might stick. Fast forward to last week and I confessed again to my wife that while I have drastically improved, often going several months without any porn use, there have been moments where I slipped. This unraveled everything and things are worse than they were before, because along the way she would "check in" to see how I was doing, but I was too ashamed and too afraid to confess to the times when I slipped up until recently. She's right in that I didn't do what I needed the first time to ensure I had the right tools in place or surround myself with encouragement and accountability and counseling. While I did implement some things (Covenant Eyes, accountability partners, eliminating apps, etc.) I lacked a community to be able to reach out to. I hope NoFap can be one of those communities I can both contribute to and glean encouragement and accountability from. Here's to a life of purity!