Hi all, I'm 38 and married and hsve just come to the realisation that I have been addicted to porn for a long time. My wife has now found out and we are dealing with the shock of that and we are also dealing with the aftermath of two miscarriages in the past 6 months. As you can imagine, I will really appreciate any support you can offer. I have read a lot of research and we are using Paula Hall's book to guide us on our way until we can get a regular counsellor. If any of you have been or are going through something similar, I would really appreciate any advice.