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New to the 90 day challenge, Day 1 today(31st dec), Am gay(not that it matters)

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  1. Dec 31, 2019 #1
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    Hey!
    Its my first day. I have always wanted to be the person whose mind isnt dominated by the sexual thoughts but somehow have never been able to achieve so. I am gay and on the path of becoming comfortable with my sexual orientation, i became quite promiscuous, started using the dating app grindr more than i would personally prefer to. Monogamy has been ingrained inme since childhood,hence its how I personally want to lead my life ( no judgements on the ones who prefer polyamory or polygamy), its the only way I am comfortable with or atleast want to get comfortable with. My past attempts in succeeding at the monogamous relationships have not quite worked out. I sense that my promiscuity and porn addiction have had definitely a part to play in it. Also It would be nice to be in the academic cream that I used to be in in my pre and early puberty years. Being a doctor, the study never ends and being not able to fully focus on the subject has also been frustrating for as long as I can remember. I have started the NoFap in the midst of USMLE prep hoping that I would come out of it a better person. Also,I want this to be my first and last reboot. Lets travel this path together. Cheers!
     
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    Hello,Welcome here!
     
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  3. Dec 31, 2019 #3
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    Thank you !
     
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    Welcome. Great time to start.
     
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  5. Jan 1, 2020 #5
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    Thank You !
     
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    Welcome, and good luck!
     
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    Thank You !
     
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  8. Jan 2, 2020 #8
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    You got this brother! Make it happen. Best to you friend. 2020 is your year!
     
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    Thank You !
    Thank You !
     
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  10. Jan 2, 2020 #10
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    Hi and welcome, great you joined this community for it can surely support you on your journey. Supporting others, btw, is huge in this process, cause you cannot pray water and drink wine, it helps you walk the talk.
    Make sure your intention to break the habit is more than a well meant new year‘s resolution. Think about Why you need to change, where you wanna be and how you wanna FEEL about yourself in let‘s say 6 months from now. Make a plan, take decisions, make daily promises to yourself AND keep them. If necessary look for accountability, do not go back to sleep now the prince has kissed you ;).
    Good luck, stay strong and, grow in confidence, you are bound to be successful. Cheers from MrBettyford
     
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  11. Jan 2, 2020 #11
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    Congratulations for joining our community! You seem determined. I am confident that you will beat this addiction and smash that USMILE!
     
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    Thank you for all the encouragement and support !
     
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    Thank you so much for the kind and encouraging words! I hope to travel this path with determined fellow fapstronauts such as yourself and come out of it a winner !
     
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    You will ... with a little perseverance and love for sobriety which can show you the way out of the labyrinth. It needs some work, trust and faith that it is possible, that you can do it. And you will.
     
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    Hello, welcome to this wonderful community. We all believe in you, let's get it done together brother :)
     
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  18. Jan 12, 2020 #18
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    Hey there gay here too and I can relate to your story. 6 days off porn here and doing well. How is it going for you?

     
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